Rajesh Goyal

Gdmng! Yesterday, a simple trip to Lajpat Nagar’s bustling market got me thinking. Amidst the overwhelming sea of choices, we rarely hate or trash items we dislike. Instead, we simply move on, selecting what aligns with our taste & values.

Sweetheart, This analogy of a store filled with countless items both good & bad emphasizes the importance of selective engagement. Much like a discerning shopper, we don’t need to react to every item on display. Just as you wouldn’t purchase every product, you don’t need to react to every external stimulus. By focusing on what truly matters, you can cultivate a more positive & fulfilling life.

Darling listen – The point I’m making is to learn to let go of the need to argue or prove yourself unnecessarily. Instead, channel your limited energy & time into creative pursuits, meaningful connections & cultivate a positive mindset. Believe me, if you apply this principle in your daily life, you can achieve a more joyful existence.

I wish & hope that you’ll join me in embracing the art of selective engagement. Let you do something today (everyday) that brings you joy, success & protects the peace you’ve cultivated.

Have a wonderful Thursday! Blessings 💐

We’re all walking stories, some of us love letters, others unintentional hate mail. We either illuminate spaces, shift moods & inspire with our mere presence or we dim the light, cast shadows & discourage those around us. We can be either a precious gift or a burdensome curse. I’m sure you’re aware of this. But that’s not the whole point today.. 🤔

Today, I want to remind you that no one, not even I, has the authority to dictate how you should be or how you should live your life. Whether you’re a beacon of light or a source of darkness is ultimately up to you. It’s not about external validation like likes or followers on social media 🤭..

Sweetheart, the point I’m trying to make today is that if you look in the mirror & feel anything less than respect, admiration & love for the person staring back, it’s time for a change. If your thoughts, words & deeds align with your true self, then you’re on the right path. If not, it’s time to reflect & make necessary adjustments. Hope this makes sense to you 🤔

Darling listen – The power to change is yours. You can easily transform your thoughts, appearance, outlook, words & actions. Take the time to truly know yourself. Reward yourself for all the good you are doing or, if needed, give yourself a wake-up call to inspire positive change 🤣

May you always strive to become the best version of yourself, a person you admire & respect. May you continue to learn, grow & evolve. Best of Luck & Blessings 💐

A wise reader recently emailed me & asked me why I often repeat the same messages. I replied, “Just as we can’t eat a lifetime’s worth of food in one sitting, we can’t fill our souls with love, inspiration or motivation all at once. These nourishing elements must be replenished regularly 🙏

Today, I’m here to remind you once more: You have everything you need or at least you have everything you need to get what you want… Hope you got it right 🤔🤔

Sweetheart, in fact you don’t need:

• More time; you need less distraction.
  
• Motivation; you need self-discipline.
  
• More resources; you need resourcefulness.
  
• Luck; you need preparation.
  
• Busyness; you need focus.
• To know everything; you need to start.
  
• Beauty, coolness or popularity; you just need to feel appreciated.

Darling listen – You don’t need more plans, ideas or strategies. What you need is to take action, implement steps & move forward. What you truly need is yourself. In this vast universe, your physical and emotional needs can be met in countless ways. All you need is the belief in your ability to fulfill those needs.

I’ve emphasized this point repeatedly because, like many of you, I’ve often turned to Google for quick fixes. But the answers to life’s biggest questions & things that you need aren’t found in search results. They emerge through active participation in life.

In the end, it’s not about shortcuts or superficial solutions. It’s about the rich tapestry of life—the experiences we gather, the connections we form & the journey itself. So, be proactive in shaping your own destiny. Always remember, you have everything you need to create the life you desire. Believe in yourself & let your real journey unfold. Blessings 💐

This week, let’s commit to speaking our truth, taking action & stepping into our full potential.

Sweetheart, It’s time to stop dreaming & start doing. Be proactive, decisive & relentless in your pursuit of goals. Let you eliminate all distractions & start focusing on self-mastery & what truly matters.

Darling listen – While this period is traditionally associated with festivities & relaxation, it also presents a valuable opportunity for personal & professional growth. Use this opportunity to elevate yourself. Understand your strengths, weaknesses & what pushes your buttons. Armed with this knowledge, you can easily become the extraordinary person you’re meant to be.

Let’s make the most of this time. Be mindful & deliberate in your thoughts, words & actions. Embrace self-management & watch your life transform. Remember, even the tiny tweaks & smallest steps can lead to the greatest journeys.

Here’s to a week filled with joy, growth & abundance. Blessings 💐

आज का रविवारीय लेख उपनिषदों के इस महावाक्य से प्रेरित है – “तत्त्वमसि”, अर्थात “तू ही वह है”। यह वाक्य हमें बताता है कि हम सभी ब्रह्मांड के एक अंश हैं, एक ही चेतना के विभिन्न रूप हैं।

हम जो स्वयं को समझते हैं उससे कंही अधिक हैं लेकिन अपनी सोच, भावनाओं, इच्छाओं और विचारों का जंजाल और शोरगुल हमसे वैसी ही क्रियायें करवाता रहता है जैसे बन्दर वाला बन्दर को बाँध कर करवाता रहता है। और बन्दर के जैसे गुलाटियां मारने को ही हम अपना सहज कर्म मान लेते हैं। हम इस जीवन मे कितने महान कार्य कर सकते थे ये हमें याद ही नही रहता है।

ये बात समझने के लिये किसी भी शास्त्र, दर्शन या धर्म को जानने की बहुत जरूरत नही है कि हमें इस जीवन के बाद कोई मोक्ष या मुक्ति नही पानी है, बल्कि जीते जी अपने ईश्वरीय अस्तित्व को, उस सनातन चेतना को धारण करना है और ये कोई महानता का कार्य नही है.. ये हमारे सहज कर्म का स्वाभाविक हिस्सा बन जाना है…

हमारे सन्तों ने, महापुरुषों ने, पुराणों ने तरह-तरह के उपाय, अनेक प्रकार के साधन बताये हैं जिससे आप आत्म साक्षात्कार और आत्म-शोधन की प्रक्रिया प्रारम्भ कर सकते हैं। लेकिन मेरा ये मानना है कि आप केवल ये जानें, महसूस करें कि आप कितने मूर्ख थे की आप क्या बन सकते थे, क्या हो सकते थे और क्या क्या कर सकते थे अगर स्वयं को जान पाते, अगर जो जानते थे उसको अगर हर शब्द, विचार और कर्म में प्रकट कर लेते तो।

इसीलिए स्वयं को लगातार अज्ञानता, ढोंग-पाखण्ड की और धकेलने की बजाय, बन्दर की तरह उछल-कूद करने की बजाये अपने स्वधर्म को पहचानने और आत्मस्वरूप को जानने और जगाने का प्रयास ही प्रार्थना ही है।

आज मेरे आराध्य प्रभु जी से प्रार्थना है कि हम सब उनकी कृपा से आत्मिक जागरण की ओर प्रेरित हों जिससे जल्द से जल्द हमें आत्म दर्शन और आत्मा में उस परमात्मा के दर्शन हो पायें।

उनसे आज ये भी प्रार्थना है कि हम सब सुखी रहें, रोगमुक्त रहें और प्रतिदिन मंगलमय घटनाओं के साक्षी एवं प्रतिभागी बनें। मंगल शुभकामनाएं 💐

श्री रामाय नमः। ॐ हं हनुमते नमः।।

We all want connection, love & a sense of belonging. We all want to be seen, heard & valued by others. It’s a fundamental human desire. Today, I’m exploring how to cultivate this within ourselves, giving ourselves the love & attention we often seek from others.

Sweetheart, true self-care isn’t self-indulgence. It’s nourishment for your soul. It’s permission to rest, reflect & dream. It’s a pep talk, reassurance & acceptance. It’s the appreciation, recognition, respect, kindness & understanding you deserve.

Darling listen – let’s remember that our happiness & fulfillment are rooted in our capacity to love & care for ourselves. While supportive relationships add beauty to our lives, they can’t fill the void left by self-neglect. We must be our own unwavering source of love & acceptance. Ultimately, no one can take our vitamins, make our choices, or pave our path to joy & success. It’s a journey we must take for ourselves.

Ready to prioritize yourself? Ask yourself this: What can I give myself today?

Let’s cherish ourselves & those we love, right now. Blessings 💐

Time is a precious commodity & 2024 is slipping away. Don’t let it end with just a sigh of relief or a sense of “just being right”. Make it a year to remember – a year of extraordinary achievements, audacious moves & a great story to tell.

Sweetheart, as the year draws to a close, let’s pause to reflect on these thought-provoking questions. They’ll help you maximize the rest of 2024 & set the stage for a vibrant 2025:

• What are you most proud of this year?
• What is one goal that must be achieved by the end of the year?
• What is one change you need to make by the end of 2024?
• What is one relationship you feel you need to forge, strengthen or grow?
• What is one habit you need to let go of & what is one new habit you need to create?

Darling listen – actions speak louder than words. Once you’ve answered these questions, take ownership of your decisions & commit to taking action. As Goethe wisely said, “Action springs not from thought, but from a readiness for responsibility.”

I wish & hope that you finish 2024 strong!  Let you embrace the challenges that shaped you, seize the opportunities that presented themselves & create a legacy that you can be proud of. Blessings 💐

Today, let’s remember that the most profound desire of the human heart is simple: to feel good about oneself, to find peace & to experience a sense of optimism. With just a few well-chosen words, sweetheart, you have the power to help anyone instantly achieve this.

Darling listen – You are a reservoir of infinite potential & divine powers. When you speak words of blessing, the possibilities are boundless. Let this be your daily mantra.

Therefore, be good today. Be good to others, be good to yourself & be good to your soul. Let your actions & words not only manifest your desires but also serve as a beacon of positivity, illuminating the path for others.

Act like it, today & every day.

May you walk through this day with a twinkle in your eye, a spring in your step & a heart filled with love. Blessings 💐

It’s frustrating how our less-than-ideal moments are often used to define us. It seems like when we’re good & at our best, it’s somehow dismissed as inauthentic & mistaken for a temporary display rather than our authentic nature.

Sweetheart, A momentary storm doesn’t define the endless sky. Don’t let your worst days overshadow all the good you bring to the world.. Your worth & true essence remain unchanged, no matter the weather.

Darking listen – You are a radiant soul, a beacon of light in this world. Your brilliance, talent, beauty & power are undeniable. Don’t let anyone, including yourself, reduce you to some fleeting moments of weakness or negative emotions. You are so much more than your anger or your illness or your doubts or your fears. You are a masterpiece, still under construction, but destined for greatness.

It’s time to awaken your true potential & essence. It’s time to make a positive impact. There’s no better time than now. Blessings 💐

Have you ever been so fascinated by a breathtaking mountain range that you forgot to actually see it? We often get caught up in the description of something, lost in the theory, the ideas, the concepts, rather than experiencing the reality firsthand. This is true for many aspects of life, from spirituality & well-being to happiness & success.

Remember, the description is not the described!

Sweetheart, we may spend countless hours reading sacred texts or motivational quotes, but if we don’t apply these teachings to our lives, they remain mere words on a page. It’s like trying to quench your thirst by reading about water 🤭🤭

From the couch to the court, it’s time to play the game.

Darling listen – shift your focus from mere contemplation to actual practice. It’s time to move from theory to reality, from reel to the real 🙏

Let’s break the digital chains & embrace the real world. It’s time to live your life, not just read about it. I wish & hope that you take the first step today. Blessings 💐