“I am enough” & “being yourself” are completely deceitful notions.

Today I want to tell you that “being yourself” is a completely deceitful notion & a garbage advice if “yourself” is unrefined, unreliable or misguided, if “yourself” is rude, abrasive, prejudiced, self entitled, elitist or toffee-nosed, if “yourself” is lazy, desperate, weak, anxious, fearful, awkward, uninteresting or socially unskilled…

Darling listen – I am also trying to challenge the notion of “I am enough”. Let me remind you that it is your this “I am enough” mentality which is actually making you less attractive & stopping you from attracting people, places, circumstances & events needed for living a happy, healthy & fulfilled life.

As a matter of fact, this “I am enough” mindset is responsible for a good number of people becoming so laid back that they do nothing at all. After all, if you are already enough, then there is no need to do more or improve or try to do anything at all, is there?

Sweetheart, I haven’t met or heard of a single person on earth devoid of the need to improve. It is this need for improvement that gives life meaning & I think it is ridiculous to assume that you don’t need any improvement.

No matter who you are, no matter what you do, no matter where you’ve come from, you always need to improve, change & to try to become a better version of yourself everyday.

We all have aspects of our personality & behavior that we need to work on to become better people. We all need to become more skilled, wise, balanced, courageous & disciplined. We all have to learn to be more assertive, less anxious, more confident & more healthy. We all need to learn, unlearn, relearn, acquire, become intentional & proactive.

The key is to find a balance between being true to ourselves & being willing to change for the better. Although, we should not try to become someone we are not, but we should also not be afraid to make positive changes.

Sweetheart, if you know that you are unhappy with some aspects of your life, routine or activities then please take action to change the things you can. You should not simply accept ” just being yourself”.

I wish & hope that you will learn to be the best parts of yourself & begin to work on the rest. Let you use this day to become better. Tons of blessings 💐