Can you become unoffendable.. ??

Today I wish you to know that you can’t make people do what’s just right or good for you. You will experience things that cause you to feel hurt or offended. People will do things that will upset you.

Not only people, sometimes we even feel hurt because of God’s plan.. especially when it is not aligned with our own plan 🤭..

Remember, offenses are going to come all the time. It is how you respond that makes you who you are.. It is how you handle them that matters..

Darling listen –  ignore or confront, you decide… I just want you to avoid reacting emotionally.

Let me tell you that everyone feels anger, rage & malice at different times & in different situations, that is so natural & okay, but staying angry, irritated & short with everyone all the time, making it your character, reacting stupidly & doing foolish things in haste is not at all good. You will regret it later.. 

Sweetheart, always wait until the anger dissipates before making a decision or taking action. Staying clean & clear of the rage-filled moment is very much necessary.

First try forgiving, forgetting, washing away blames & rinsing off your anger & resentment with your love & tolerance. You never overcome hurt with more hurt. You never get ahead of doing to others what they did to you.

But if ignoring the misdeed & letting go of the hurt is not at all possible then at least do not escalate the heat at that outrageous moment. Do not reveal your emotions right away, hide your contempt.. believe me, you will get all the opportunities to settle your score & pay back at your own turf at your convenience.

Know that the first person to draw up arms is not often the first person to settle a conflict.. 🤭

Today, I wish & hope that you become incredibly blessed & gloriously unoffendable. Rooting for your success, your good health, happiness, healing & peace 💐