Habit of making Excuses & using false Alibis is like weeds: they grow quickly & choke out the good things in our lives.

Today I wish you to know that excuses & false alibis are a dead end. They lead nowhere & only serve to hold us back from achieving our destiny. When we make excuses, we are essentially saying that we are not responsible for our actions or outcomes. We are blaming something or someone else for our mistakes or failures. This is a dangerous mindset, as it prevents us from taking ownership of our actions & learning from them.

Darling listen – You can’t blame bad weather for your own bad planning. Excuses are always excuses.

Alibis are similar to excuses, but they are more specific. They are usually used to trying to prove that we were not somewhere or doing something at a particular time. Alibis can be useful in some cases, but you can’t use false alibis to cover your wrongdoings in normal daily lives as a habit…

Sweetheart, I wish I could say that I’ve never made excuses or covered my mistakes, but that wouldn’t be true. Like everyone else, I sometimes fall into the trap of making excuses for why something didn’t work out, even though I know I’m the one who did things wrong.

Making excuses is human nature. It’s part of our self-defense mechanisms, which our minds use to protect us from the harsh realities of life. But even though it’s human nature, making excuses is a waste of time. Excuses never move you forward. They only keep you where you are. If you’re happy with that, fine. But that’s rarely the case 🤭.

I’ve learned that it’s better to take responsibility for your own actions, even if it’s uncomfortable. When you make excuses, you’re only fooling yourself.

I wish & hope that from today itself you begin to catch yourself making an excuse or using any false alibi & start taking responsibility for your every action, reaction & outcome. Let this reminder, understanding, resolve & line of thinking lead you to a more fulfilling, happy & successful life.

Tons of Blessings 💐