The advice is simple: It’s ‘be yourself’, but there’s a crucial caveat 🤫!

Gdmng, sunshine! Let’s start this day with a little dose of truth & a whole lot of self-respect. It’s something we all need reminding of from time to time: You will always be perceived differently by different people. It’s an unavoidable part of the human experience.

Think about it: you might be someone’s rock, their pillar of strength, while to another person, you might appear vulnerable. You could be the source of comfort for one person, while another finds you unsettling. Some will adore your energy, while others might find it overwhelming. You’ll be “too much” for some & a precious gift to others 💪.

Sweetheart, the truth is, everyone sees you through their own unique lens, shaped by their experiences, beliefs & expectations. The world will never agree on one single definition of who you are & it is so liberating, in my opinion…

This understanding frees you. It gives you permission to stop trying to please everyone & stop feeling hurt when someone doesn’t appreciate you. You can start living a life that resonates with your heart, without constantly worrying about others’ opinions. It’s the well-worn advice of “be yourself,” but with a crucial caveat 🤫.

Darling listen – “Be yourself” is fantastic advice, but it only works if you’ve done the inner work. If you haven’t cultivated good character, simply “being yourself” isn’t enough. Being a “shitty” person & “being yourself” isn’t a winning combo 🤭.  It takes conscious effort to develop into the kind of person you want to be, the person you’re capable of becoming. This requires self-reflection, growth & a willingness to be honest with yourself, especially when it’s uncomfortable.

True authenticity isn’t just about expressing yourself involuntarily; it’s about knowing yourself. It’s about developing the character to stand tall in your truth, even if it means some people won’t understand or approve. It’s about having the courage to be seen as “weird” or “different” because you’re staying true to your values. This kind of authenticity attracts genuine connections & gently filters out those who aren’t meant to be in your life 🤪.

So, as you step into this new day, remember this: The most authentic thing about you isn’t a fixed identity. It’s your capacity – your capacity to create, to overcome challenges, to endure difficult times, to transform & grow & most importantly, to love. Embrace that capacity. Nurture it. Let it shine.

Go out there & be the best version of yourself – the one you’ve consciously chosen to become. The world will have its opinions regardless, so you might as well live a life that makes your own heart sing… Blessings 💐