Your “what if” or “should have been” thoughts aren’t helping. Unless more headaches were the goal 🤐

Gdmng! Ever wake up with a headache & your mind starts to drift, imagining a different life? A “what if” where things played out differently or you made another choice? If so, you’re definitely not alone. It’s a common human tendency to wonder about those paths not taken, things that you haven’t done, the “should haves” & “could haves.

Sweetheart, it’s okay to get caught in those loops of “what might have been.” But here’s the real thing: dwelling on those “what ifs” doesn’t change a single thing. You aren’t defined by what you could have done; you’re the result of what you have done. Every single step, every choice (yes, even that one 😉), every experience – that’s the recipe for the awesome (or, let’s be real, sometimes “not so awesome”) person, life & the world you’ve got. Here is a spoiler alert: you cooked it all up yourself. No refunds 😂!

Darling listen – As you kick off this new day, if those “what ifs” try to crash your morning tea, just give them a polite nod & show them the door. Seriously, why let the headache of “what should have been” hijack your morning like yesterday’s stale leftovers? Just let it go, sweetie 🤗

Here’s the real deal: today, you are absolutely, ridiculously, completely free. And not just free, but wiser, stronger & more intelligent than you probably even realize! To do any damn thing you want, change anything you want, experience anything you want – starting right now. Isn’t that just gloriously liberating? Time to make some new, awesome memories!

That’s a pretty mind-blowing, comforting thought, right? It’s like a giant buffet of possibilities, just waiting for you to fill your plate with anything, even if your past menu choices were a bit… questionable 🤫. So, what’s on your plate today? What new adventure are you going to dig into? The choice, as always, is all yours. What new possibility are you excited to explore today?

Here’s to making choices today that will have you saying, years from now, “Wow, I actually did that!” instead of “What if?” or “I should have…” Blessings 💐