The Great Divide: Is Your Mindset a Doer’s, an Expecter’s, or Just Plain Delusional You Owed It All?

Happy Monday, Week 26! Another week begins, another glorious chance to embrace the “you” you were meant to be. And by “you,” of course, I’m referring to one of the two distinct human species currently gracing our planet: the “Bare Minimum Believers & Champion Complainers” & the “Grateful Hearts & Dedicated Doers.”

First, meet the magnificent minimalist. These are the folks who believe just showing up is enough work. They’ve mastered doing precisely nothing, yet expect the universe to hand them gold trophies & crowns. Their motto? “Why sweat when you can just expect?” And when things predictably don’t work out, you’ll find them scowling, griping about life’s unfairness & wondering why success isn’t just served on a silver platter. Bless their optimistic hearts; they truly believe the world owes them everything…

Then there’s the other group: the overachievers. These tireless workhorses somehow manage to pour in all the effort, stay relentlessly consistent & still wonder if they’ve actually done enough. You’ll often spot them smiling, likely because they’re filled with a bewildering sense of gratitude for the sheer privilege of doing things that matter to them & to their world.

Sweetheart, naturally, both types want the same shiny things: success, getting recognized (that’s reputation), feeling respected & having lots of connections. But here’s the catch: only one group is actually willing to work for it. The first type wants the reward without doing any of the work… The second group? They just keep showing up, every single day, trying to prove something—not to anyone else, but to themselves. Tough break for them, right?

Darling listen – as you step into Week 26, ask yourself: are you just expecting everything to happen, or are you one of those peculiar individuals actually working for it? Choose your path wisely, as your success, connections, reputation & respect might just hinge on it.

Wishing you a week of undeniable progress! Blessings 💐