The real magic isn’t found in your to-do list—it’s found in your not-to-do list 🙈

Gdmng! Here we are again, blinking at the sunlight & trying to convince ourselves that waking up was a good idea. Reality is already knocking, demanding we be productive, but let’s be honest—we’re just here to see if we can get through the day without losing our minds, right 🤔?

Sweetheart, The real magic of the day isn’t found in your daily to-do list—it’s found in your not-to-do list. There is profound power in the things & people you starve. Ignore the soul-sucking people, skip the performative drama, chaos & ruthlessly prune the distractions that try to pass themselves off as opportunities. That restraint is exactly how you surprise yourself & everyone else—with what you’re actually capable of doing & achieving. Keep just enough chaos, mess, temptation & friction around to keep things spicy—as long as you’re the one holding the leash & not the one getting walked 🫣.

Darling listen – Think of your day like a garden. Spend today pulling up the weeds of “I should” & “I must” They’re just taking up space where better things could grow. Instead, pour your energy into things, people that feel like home & the conversations that make you feel truly seen. Move slowly, follow your own heart & let the background noise & all the unnecessary just fade away.

May you end up in the right place, around the right people & feeling that smug, well-earned contentment of someone who ignored all the nonsense, distractions & temptations, did exactly what they intended & is steadily becoming the person they were always meant to be. Blessings 💐