Rajesh Goyal

Today I wish you to know that your arrogance & rudeness in talking makes others less interested in conversation. It is your responsibility to make your conversations more effective so that you & others can feel connected.

Darling listen – afterall the objective of any conversation is to make everyone feel connected & not disconnected.

I have had the opportunity to meet & work with several big & successful people in business & coaching industry & one of the common behaviour I found in most of these great people around the globe is the way of their talking, the way they converse with others, the way they argue with others & the way they discuss things with others.

Politeness, humbleness, respect, pureness of heart, love & appreciation is the key reflection in their talking.

Yes, it might happen that some of them have incorporated this behaviour after reaching to that highest level, some have adopted this during the course of their way & some are born with that.

However, if you know that you are not born with the gift of communication then the first & foremost thing you need to do is stop ridiculing, burning up, throwing temper tantrums – whining, crying or screaming & driving others up to the wall in your conversations, discussions & arguments. You need to bring some politeness, love, compassion, empathy & respect towards others in your conversations.

In any conversation, discussion or argument, you have to begin to believe that everybody is a champion in their corner & you have to value them. You can not ignore their perspective, whatever it may be.

You have to start listening to people, even if it is a tough task for you. Showing you have heard others connect you more in conversations.

I wish & hope that you realise that it all starts with you. Let this realisation empowers you in so many ways & make things you pray for & believe a reality, very soon.

Tons of Good Wishes & blessings 🎉

Let this week be a week of blessing for you & your family!

I pray & hope that you attract what you want, create what you believe in & all of your desires come true in this week.

Darling listen – in this week, I just want you to be good in what you’re good at. Do more of what you do best. Do it in your way & give yourself your best chance to become the best version of yourself & to succeed.

Good luck & Tons of Good Wishes 💐

कल हनुमान जन्मोत्सव के उपलक्ष्य में कुछ विद्वान लोगों से चर्चा का सौभाग्य प्राप्त हुआ। उसी चर्चा के कुछ अंश यंहा संकलित किये हैं।

इसमें कतई कोई शक नही है कि श्री राम जी के महाजीवन की महान गाथा श्री रामचरित मानस शुरू से ही हमारी संस्कृति, हमारी आस्था, भक्ति, जीवन मूल्यों, मर्यादा का आदर्श रही है। मगर आज मेरा सवाल ये है कि हम स्वयं रामायण जी के किस पात्र-चरित्र की भूमिका में हैं या अपने जीवन मे किस पात्र-चरित्र को आज कल ज्यादातर निभा रहे हैं? सवाल ये है कि क्या आज कल हम श्री राम की भूमिका में हैं या भरत की या रावण की या विभीषण की भूमिका को सबसे ज्यादा निभा रहे हैं? क्या हम दशरथ और माता कौशल्या की भूमिका में हैं? और कब कब हम कैकयी या मन्थरा की भूमिका में आ जाते हैं? क्या हम हनुमानजी की भूमिका में हैं? या हम में हनुमान जी बनने की संभावनाएं हैं? या उनके चरित्र को निभाने की जरा सी भी इच्छा है?

चर्चा में ये भी याद दिलाया गया कि हम में से किसी को भी हनुमानजी की तरह सीना फाड़ कर अपने आराध्य को या किसी दूसरे को कुछ साबित करने की आवश्यकता नही है लेकिन एकांत में तो हम ये कर ही सकते हैं- अंदर झांक कर देख सकते हैं की आपके मन मस्तिष्क में कौन रहता है और आप कौन से पात्र-चरित्र को अक्सर सबसे ज्यादा निभाते हैं या निभा रहे हैं?

याद रखने की बात ये भी बताई गई की जब हम श्री हनुमान जी की तरह ही शांत, निर्मल, आनंदमय, भक्तिमय और समर्पित एवं निस्स्वार्थ भाव की ऊंचाइयों पर होते हैं तथा जब भी हम श्री हनुमान जी की तरह राम काज (अपने शुभ कार्यों, कर्तव्यों और प्रतिबद्धताओं) को जी-जान लगाकर, तत्परता और कुशलता से करते हैं तब ही हम अपने उच्चतम लक्ष्यों और महान उद्देश्यों की प्राप्ति कर पाते हैं अन्यथा नही।

इसीलिये मुझे लगता है की मेरे आराध्य (श्री हनुमान जी) की भूमिका को अपने भीतर खोजना और उनके आराध्य (श्री राम जी) द्वारा स्थापित श्रेष्ठ मूल्यों को अपने जीवन में उतार कर उच्चतम जीवन-आदर्श प्रस्तुत कर अपने पूर्वजों और कुल के गौरव को आगे बढ़ाने का निरन्तर प्रयास ही हमारी सच्ची प्रार्थना है।

सब शुभेच्छाओं और मंगल कामनाओं को पूर्ण करने वाले मेरे आराध्य श्री हनुमान जी से आज प्रार्थना है कि उन जैसी बल-बुद्धि, अनुभूति, कर्तव्यपरायणता, अहंकारशून्यता, संतुलन, आत्मसंयम, सरलता-सहजता और भक्ति आप में भी आ जाये तथा आपकी सूझ-बूझ हमेशा बनी रहे, आप हष्ट-पुष्ट और स्वस्थ बने रहें, शतायु हों, प्रसन्नचित रहें और सदैव उन्नति करते रहें। मंगल शुभकामनाएं। 💐💐

मेरे आराध्य श्री हनुमान जी के जन्मोत्सव के शुभ अवसर पर हार्दिक शुभकामनाएँ।

मैं आज उनसे प्रार्थना करता हूँ कि उनका आशीर्वाद हम सब पर अनवरत बना रहे, वे सदैव हमारे साथ रहें और उनका संरक्षण व मार्गदर्शन हम सब को सदैव प्राप्त रहे, इन्ही सब मंगलकामनाओं के साथ साथ मैं आज उनसे ये भी प्रार्थना करता हूँ कि हमारे जीवन में बल, बुद्धि और साहस के साथ साथ संयम और साधुता भी बनी रहे।

पवनपुत्र से ये भी प्रार्थना है कि हमारे सभी शुभ संकल्प तेजी से पूरे हों और असंभव से लगने वाले लक्ष्य भी जल्द ही संभव हो जाये। हम सब हमेशा स्वस्थ रहें और खुश रहें, ऐसी मेरी उनसे विनती है। मंगल शुभकामनाएं। 💐

पवन तनय संकट हरन, मंगल मूरति रूप।
राम लखन सीता सहित, हृदय बसहु सूरभूप॥

जय बजरंगबली। 🙏🏻

Today, I wish you to know that it is not about living & breathing. It is about being Alive. It’s about maximising the quality of your life, making most of your time & pushing yourself out of your comfort zone.

Darling listen – With due respect to people in comas, no one would like to be living but not being alive. Do more of those things that makes you feel alive – More Alive!

Just like breathing is not only about breathing, doing something for the sake of doing is also not enough. Doing anything without putting heart & soul into it, is completely useless. It will not serve any purpose. Start doing things with a purpose rather than doing these for the sake of doing them, if you really wish to make things beautiful, meaningful & achieve something.

Stop being all dull, cold, plain, uninteresting, boring & lifeless. Start feeling alive, flowing, full of passion, energy & happy.

One more thing before ending this… I keep hearing this – Life will reward those who have patience & faith.

It is true but patience is not only about waiting, it’s about constantly doing what you can & believing that it will all work out in the end while you are waiting. Similarly faith is not about blindness, it’s about believing what your soul already knows. Faith is not about merely hoping, it is about praying while trying to move mountains with your own push (efforts).

I hope each day, starting from today, bring you an extra share of all that makes you happiest & successful. Wishing you all the great things in life. Blessings & Tons of Blessings 💐

God knows everything that is taking place in our lives—including our motives & our deepest inner thoughts.

Does this scare you? Perhaps it should—because it means, you can’t hide from God & deceive Him into thinking you are better than what you really are.

But this fact that God knows all about you also should bring some hope, comfort & peace to you – because even though He knows everything about you, He still loves you. He knows & sees all your clumsiness, mistakes, wrongdoings, weaknesses, imperfections & stll considers you to be completely lovable & thinks that you can do all the wonderful amazing things.

Now that I have reminded you that He sees you all the time, please choose to be good & do good at every opportunity. I want you to train yourself to do good as often as you possibly can even if it is something hard to do.

I am sure that you have all the senses & powers to distinguish between good & bad. You know what is good, bad & that in-between thing for your body, mind, heart, soul & your world, no matter what religion, political party or culture you come from.

In sports, musicians or businesses, people who are considered to be at the peak of their career, performance or physical human ability are not born that way. They have achieved this & learnt the required skills by following a regime of practice, practice & practice, devoting hours of everyday to improving themselves.

You too can learn to be good & start doing good with practice & exercise, just like any other skill.

Darling listen – you can disappoint Him only by not trying to improve or by avoiding the practice to do good. Make sure that you are doing everything & putting your heart & energy into being Good. Let you start doing good & start using your time & energy wisely.

I pray God to fill you with His wisdom & understanding of His will so that you can begin to see your true worth & start looking at yourself & others through God’s eyes.

Good luck & Tons of Good wishes 💐

Don’t let your negative & repetitive thoughts stop you from accomplishing all that you can – your dreams, getting fit, meeting more awesome people & going to new levels.

Darling listen – You are incredibly gifted – a masterpiece, worthy, victorious & an overcomer but when you keep telling yourself a wrong story, your real talent, potential & gifts don’t come out as they should which in turn destroy your self confidence & self image, peace of mind, happiness, your ability to think clearly & perform effectively… ultimately limiting your destiny.

Please start examining & filtering your such wrong stories, narratives & thoughts that are affecting your actions & preventing you from pursuing even simple things like smiling, exercising, waking up an hour early, dressing up nicely, interactions with people & various other activities or things that you are passionate about.

Darling, you can improve yourself & everything in your life by just reframing & turning these repetitive negative thoughts into positive ones.

All I want from you is to start thinking more positively, reading & speaking more positive words, smiling more frequently, start taking responsibility of your actions & stop playing the victim card.

Darling, I know all this will be difficult for you. I know it will be very difficult for you to find time to think positive thoughts. But you have no choice. You have to learn to turn your negative thinking into positive thinking. The process is simple, but it will take time & practice — you’re creating a new habit, after all 😂

Start today & slowly work your way up.

Stay Thinking Positive & Feeling Good 🎉