For God’s sake learn to reciprocate now..

It is incredibly draining & frustrating to see people not reciprocating the kindness, thoughtfulness & other things you do for them.

Sweetheart, it is obvious that one day you will begin to feel & think that it’s senseless & stupid to pour all your energy into a black hole. Sweetheart, if you are moving mountains for those that selfishly neither fully appreciate nor help make your life easier, perhaps you will stop doing things for them one day. Isn’t it?

Darling listen – there is no such thing as something for nothing. All friendships & relationships will survive & thrive only when each person gives of themselves to the other honesty & sincerely.

I am sure you must have also watched friendships, personal – professional relationships & so many opportunities getting wasted because of these one sided selfish motives & non-reciprocal behaviours.

Sweetheart, it’s time to change your mindset from thinking about how things benefit you to how you can add value & benefit to the life of those who are your friends, family & loved ones.

For God’s sake learn to reciprocate now.. lead with love but also tap into your unique talents & skills to determine how you can reciprocate & add value to the lives of others. Before long, you’ll see that the more you give, the more you receive in return.

I wish & hope that you always receive unconditional support, lots of love, respect, care & genuine happiness, infinitely more than you give to your world… Tons of Blessings 💐

Rise, Shine & Get Your Joy Back.

Unless you’re Obelix who seem to have fallen into the pot of magic potion at a young age, you have to remain very careful of what you say & do consciously 🤭. Sweetheart, this is what you may have to do repeatedly & compulsively everyday.

Darling listen – you also have to choose to do the hard things everyday. I know that choosing to do the hard right things instead of the easy wrong things consistently is not very easy. But you can’t keep yourself comfortable all the time, if you really want to reach your destiny.

Sweetheart, if you choose your comfort zone & continue to conform to the ordinary things, then circumstances will always decide for you. Please don’t complain that no one told you 🤭.

You don’t have time to waste on being negative, discouraged, focused on what didn’t work out & complaining over who did you wrong. Rise, Shine & Get your joy back.

Remember that as long as God wakes you up & gives air to breathe, you can always turn the boat around. It’s a new week full of opportunities & endless possibilities..

I wish & hope that whatever you set your hearts to, come to fulfillment this week. Tons of Blessings 💐

सर्वमंगल मांगल्ये शिवे सवार्थ साधिके,शरण्येत्र्यंबके गौरी नारायणी नमोस्तुते।

माँ भगवती की अराधना और उपासना के पावन पर्व शारदीयनवरात्रि की हार्दिक शुभकामनाएं।

कालका माई से प्रार्थना है कि आपके सभी शुभ कार्य और संकल्प तेजी से सिद्ध हों। आपकी रोग प्रतिरोधक क्षमता में, सकारात्मकता में, प्रसन्नता में, स्थिरता में, सामाजिक प्रतिष्ठा में, उपलब्धियों, सफलताओं एवं सौभाग्य में अद्भुत वृद्धि हो।

आपके जीवन में सम्मान, आदर, गरिमा के साथ साथ हर्ष और उल्लास भी सदैव बना रहे। आप के जीवन में नई खुशियों का जल्द ही आगमन हो। मै आज मेरे आराध्य प्रभु जी और कालका माई से ये प्रार्थना करता हूँ की उनका सुभाशीष हम सब पर सदैव बना रहे।

कालका माई तेरी सदा ही जय 🙏

सर्वमंगल मांगल्ये शिवे सवार्थ साधिके,
शरण्येत्र्यंबके गौरी नारायणी नमोस्तुते।

It is always a whip for the horse, a bridle for the donkey & a rod for the fool’s back..🤭

I am sure you know it very well that nobody would like to be called a fool or live like a fool. Still everyday I see people acting foolishly & unwisely 🤭..

Let me remind you that someone’s foolishness can only be seen in terms of their actions. It is what you do that makes you foolish or not, there is no other standard. Therefore the definition of a fool then is “someone who does foolish things frequently.” That is to say, “being a fool” is a matter of degree rather than a simple quality that one is either afflicted with or not.

Sweetheart, every fool will obviously act foolishly, but it is also not uncommon to see even the most intelligent people act foolishly sometimes.. That’s pretty okay…

Everyone makes mistakes… But only the Fools repeat them.

As a dog returns to his own vomit, a fool repeats his folly.. Most of the time a foolish person appears to take pride in being foolish & folly is a joy to them. The fool generally considers lightly the consequences of their mistakes & deceives not only their own heart, but also works at trying to deceive others as well.

As a result, the foolish person often finds themselves suffering hardship from their choices, actions & reactions. It is said that – A whip for the horse, a bridle for the donkey & a rod for the fool’s back..

Here are a couple of tips to overcome foolishness & stop being a fool… Let you practice with these things to begin with & who knows that a great deal of life experience just might get you closer to wisdom….

  • Don’t screw up the same thing & make the same mistake again. No, Never!
  • Be teachable & correctable, learn every day not only from your own mistakes & life but from the mistakes & lives of all those around you,
  • Listen to advice. Don’t be a know-it-all,
  • Do not be quick to quarrel,
  • Conquer your quick temper, don’t excuse yourself for it,
  • Rather than getting annoyed or remaining irritated, be willing to forgive offenses,
  • Don’t blameshift. Take accountability for your actions,
  • Listen well first before answering,
  • Don’t offend others by a constant flow of your own opinions,
  • Seek moderation over instant gratification,
  • Trust in God, not in your own wisdom,
  • Never become “all grown up,” but continue to grow until the day you die..

Today I wish & hope that this proves to be a good starting point on the path to wisdom & meaningful life. I am working on it myself.

Stay Blissful & Blessed 💐

If you are not manifesting your WILL then do not blame the Universe or others..

This statement is just a reminder that we are all responsible for communicating our needs, wants & desires to Universe & others. If we do not do this effectively, we cannot expect them to be able to understand us or meet our expectations.

If you are not yet manifesting your will, it also means either you don’t have the will at all or that you are not doing what is needed the most to manifest your will.

It is like going to a shop & staying that – I don’t know what I want & just give me something please… How stupid it is..🤭 & when you get whatever the shopkeeper (in this case Universe) want & not what you wanted, you begin to hold shopkeeper or Universe responsible..

Darling listen – try to communicate clearly what you want & identify the thoughts, habits, beliefs & actions that are holding you back from manifesting your will. If you don’t take responsibility for your own life & to create the change you want to see, you have no right to blame universe & your world.

Sweetheart, manifesting your will means using your thoughts, beliefs & every action to create the reality you want. It is about taking responsibility for your thoughts, words, deeds & making choices that are aligned with your desires.

Alter your choices, thoughts, habits, routine, communication & change doing what’s most easy/comfortable with what’s really needed (hard/uncomfortable) to make it faster to get what you want.

I wish & hope that you become crystal clear in your will, begin to communicate it effectively, start doing what is needed & start receiving all that you want in the real sense. Tons of Blessings 💐

If you can’t think well & positively, at least try to fake it…

Today I wish you to know that if your emotional well-being is contaminated, it’s going to affect not only your physical well-being but everyone in your world.

Sweetheart, please come out of the mental fog that you are into right now which is actually forcing you to keep your eyes closed & let yourself daydream. Ask yourself what are you doing?

Darling listen – get up & get out of your house or room (Fog), go to work for doing something meaningful, connect, smile & laugh all the day. You need to force yourself to think well & positively (or at least try to – initially – fake it).

You need to immediately stop thinking & speaking negatively about yourself & others, even as a joke. Your spirit doesn’t know the difference.

Please try to be away from “your current self” & try to be one among us or others in the crowd on road. Believe me you will feel refreshed, recouped & good.

I wish & hope that you will make these powerful words work in your life! Sending sunshine, love, beautiful energy & positive thoughts to you! Blessings 💐

Do you understand this fact that you are part of a divine plan?

I wish & hope that you find eternal happiness, peace, success & fulfilment very soon, not the ones which are temporary, illusory, inferior & full of miseries.

Darling listen – falling for temporary happiness & chasing illusions will actually prevent you from taking the path which is intricately designed & uniquely tailored by your God for you.

Sweetheart, you were created to thrive & to shine… He has designed you with incredible strength & co-creating potential.

Trust me, He has designed you to withstand & overcome everything. You have all that it takes. Just unlock the fullness of your potential & begin to understand that you are part of a divine plan.

Let you start doing meaningful things that matter in order to co-create your destiny with the Creator. Step into a new you that your world has never seen & start accomplishing what God has ordained for you… Blessings 💐

Are you utilizing magnificent part of yourself to enhance your life & your world…?

Today I wish to remind you that you don’t have to accept the status quo if you aren’t happy with it. You can utilize every single magnificent part of yourself to enhance every single aspect of your life & your world.

Darling listen – you don’t need to have more & you don’t need to be somewhere else to improve your life… You can move forward right now, by thinking of what you can do, with the resources & strength you have right now, from exactly where you are sitting. Yes, there may be many things that you can’t do, but there are surely many things that you can do… 🤔

I wish & hope that you immediately stop worrying about things that you can’t do & start focusing on what you can.

Sweetheart, always remember that the smallest step that you take today in the right direction has the potential to end up being the biggest step of your life.

Remind yourself of your strengths & ask yourself about the smallest step you can take today & then take. Tiptoe if you must, but take a step.

You can improve & enhance all aspects of your life by taking a series of small steps. It’s a proven formula. Let this thought & change in your mindset prove to be transformative for you.

Stay Healthy, Happy & Winsome.. Blessings 💐

Don’t lose precious things & your real life due to social pretentiousness, fallacy & fiction…

Everyone has people in their circle who brag about their richness, popularity, degrees or perfection, who love to act brute, busy or heartless & who mostly act over-smart or who think they know everything…

Sweetheart, let people do what makes them happy. Please mind your own business & do what you need to do to make yourself happy, look good & bring you peace, prosperity & grace.

Darling listen – Don’t be a copy cat & don’t waste time on criticizing or appreciating the lives & work of others. Focus on your work. Do what you’re great at. Do what matters most to you & make a difference doing that. That should be your this week’s agenda.

Never lose sight of critical things such as family & relationships, health, peace, learning & loving, your purpose & your higher goals…

While our lives, agendas & priorities will surely differ, but, sweetheart, we all have certain things that are vital to living a life of fulfillment… things that we really need to fight for… things that really matter. Never lose sight of those things…

Sweetheart, don’t lose precious things & your real life due to social pretentiousness, fallacy & fiction. Stay being real, humble & kind.

While I pray for you to receive the blessings, joy, stability & support you deserve, let you constantly force yourself to do what matters over what does not…

Tons of blessings 💐

रविवारीय प्रार्थना – एक क्षण को भी यह बात नही भुलाना कि हम कहीं से आए हैं और हमें कहीं जाना है।

आज के ये लेख ओशो के एक प्रवचन पर आधारित है जिसमे वे कहते हैं कि जीवन केवल उनका है जिनकी अंतरात्मा में अन्वेषण है। अस्तित्व केवल उनका है जो सत्य की निरंतर शोध में लगे हैं, जिन्होंने एक क्षण को भी यह बात भुलाई नहीं है कि हम कहीं से आए हैं और हमें कहीं जाना है। माना कि हमें पता नहीं है हम कंहा से आए हैं और माना यह भी कि हमें पता नहीं हमें कंहा जाना है, लेकिन एक बात सुनिश्चित है कि एक दिन था जब हम यहां नहीं थे और यह भी बात उतनी ही सुनिश्चित है कि एक दिन फिर होगा और जब हम यहां नहीं होंगे।

क्या ये सोच और शब्द हम सब को ये सोचने पर मजबूर नही करते कि इस जीवन के रूप में जो इतना बड़ा सुअवसर हमे मिला है वो केवल खाने-पीने, सोने और मर जाने के लिये नही मिला है। वो मिला है अपने कर्मों से कुछ खास बड़े लक्ष्यों को पूरा करने के लिये, वो मिला है अपनी आत्मा का विकास करने के लिये, वो मिला है, इस सृष्टि को पोषित करने लिये, अपने कर्जों को उतारने के लिये, ब्रह्म जिज्ञासा पूरी करने के लिए, परम् सत्य तथा भगवान को समझने के लिए।

कुछ लोग सशक्त, उन्नत और इतने प्रबुद्ध होकर भी केवल उतना ही करते रहते हैं जितना जानवर करते हैं, वे वैसा जीवन व्यतीत करते हैं जैसा कोई साधारण पशु जीता है। ये इस महान जीवन रूपी अवसर का दुरुपयोग है।

इस मनुष्य रूपी जीवन मे जो तर्क, बुद्धि, समर्थ, बल, योग्यता, कौशल एवं विशेषतायें आपको मिली हैं वो आपको इस पृथ्वी का सर्वश्रेष्ठ प्राणी बनाती है। इसीलिए अपनी बौद्धिकता, ताकत, ऊर्जा और जो समय हमें मिला है उसे अपने विवेकपूर्वक सत्कर्मो में लगाये रखना प्रार्थना है। अपने भावी जीवन को सुखमय बनाने का तथा अपने सुखद परिवेश के सृजन का निरन्तर प्रयास और उद्धम करते रहना ही प्रार्थना है

जीवन के मूल सत्य और सिद्धांतों का ज्ञान प्राप्त करने में, आत्म-ज्ञान प्राप्त करने में, आप स्वयं कौन हैं तथा आपके इस जीवन के मुख्य उद्देश्य कौन कौन से हैं ये जानने समझने में लगे रहना ही प्रार्थना है।

यथार्थ बोध के लिए तत्पर रहना प्रार्थना है। संशय, भ्रम और अज्ञान से मुक्ति तथा कुसंस्कारों के शमन और अपने अहंकार के निर्मूलन को अपनी पहली प्राथमिकता बनाना प्रार्थना है। अपनी आत्मा के जागरण और उसके संपूर्ण विकास में लगे रहना प्रार्थना है।

आज मेरे आराध्य देव से प्रार्थना है कि समय का प्रत्येक क्षण जो सर्वोत्तम है और अमूल्य है उसे सही दिशा में खर्च करने की आपको समझ दें, सामर्थ्य दें। आपकी पूर्णता-श्रेष्ठता हासिल करने की तथा अपने आत्म- विकास की यात्रा सरस, सुंदर, रसमय तथा सुखमय बनी रहे।

आपकी सोच, विचार और कर्म आपको श्रेष्ठता के सुभग शिखरों पर जल्द ही आरूढ़ कर दें, आप हर प्रकार से सफल रहें, आनंदित रहें, सुरक्षित रहें और स्वस्थ रहें, ऐसी सब भी आज मेरी उनसे प्रार्थना है। मंगल शुभकामनाएं💐

श्री रामाय नमः। ॐ हं हनुमते नमः।।