Who Is Responsible For Your Success & Failures?

I don’t know whether you will agree or not but always believing that a higher power has predetermined our life, it’s purpose & knows what is best for us is not always true. I mean what you want will not magically appear or fall from the sky or will not come to you as a gift nicely wrapped with a bow. You have to work hard to achieve every ounce of success, to fulfill your goals & to achieve a life that you deserve.

Whole responsibility for our success, happiness & fulfillment is on us & no one else.

I also do not wish to accept fully that all the failures, losses & suffering happen just to teach us some fateful lesson that we have been preordained to learn. Not true.

Sole purpose of writing all this is that do not just wait for superpowers to do everything for you. I mean they will not cook food for you 😂. Let you remind yourself that you are not following any script but instead writing it for yourself & your beloved ones with every breath knowingly or unknowingly.

You have to have continuous belief, faith & the unconscionable knowledge that you are destined & have innate abilities, strengths & talents to achieve your deepest desires & dreams.

But reality is that you have trained yourself to live in a state of constant fear, anxiety, stress & that it is not you but God is responsible for your successes & bringing all that you want & deserve 🤔. Isn’t it?

The other thing holding you back from achieving what you want is the necessity to take massive action on a consistent basis. While you may not agree to this, we all know that it’s the reality. You know that how hard it is to keep taking action on a daily basis & pushing through those limitations that hold you back.

Let me remind you the basic of achieving anything in life is knowing what you want & why you want it. And then creating a massive action plan.

While all this seems so simple at the outset, it involve a completely revamped way of thinking & living. The more you deflect off the track, the less likely you are to achieve the things you want out of life. Take them seriously & commit to putting the necessary time & effort to achieve even the loftiest goals that you set for yourself.

What do you think? Do you think I have a point or is this just a vague thought? Do tell me what you think about this.

Before I close this piece, I must tell my blessed readers that I am a God loving person & do all the same things as you do i.e. praying every day & visiting the religious sites but I do it because of the unique relationship I have with my God just like with every one around me. I pray God to thank him for the countless blessings & seek his continuous guidance, direction & support.

Let God always protect you & lead you down the right path.💐💐


आप जब अपनी युक्तियों, आशंकाओं, इच्छाओं, भ्रांतियों, उत्तेजनाओं तथा व्याकुलताओं को अपने आराध्य के चरणों मे रख कर कुछ भी कहते हैं तो वो प्रार्थना होती है। जब भी आप अहंकार, अज्ञान, स्वार्थ और लालच का आवरण हटा कर अपने असल सचिदानन्द रूप में आकर अपने भीतर के ईश्वरीय अंश को बाहर या भीतर कंही भी कीसी भी रूप में अनुभव करते हैं तो प्रार्थना होती है। अपने सभी कर्मो के फल स्वरूप प्राप्त परिणाम को ईश्वर की योजना का हिस्सा मानना ही प्रार्थना है। आप मे जो भी सामर्थ्य, ऊर्जा तथा शक्ति है उस से अपने जीवन की यथार्थता, आवश्यकता और उपयोगिता सिद्ध करना ही प्रार्थना है। ईश्वर से प्रार्थना है कि जल्द ही आपके सारे कष्ट, डर, संशय और अनिश्चिततायें खत्म हो जायें। आप के मान सम्मान और श्री में तेजी से वृद्धि हो, ऐसी मेरी कामना है। मंगल शुभकामनाएं। 💐💐

Dead Man!

When I was about 9 years old, my father forced me to go with him to the funeral of a friend of his that I didn’t know.

When we got there, I stayed in a corner waiting for the time to go. Then a man approached me and said: Enjoy life boy, be happy because time flies. Look at me now, I didn’t enjoy it. He passed his hand over my head and left.

My father, before leaving, forced me to say goodbye to the dead person. When I looked in the coffin, I was startled that the man who was talking to me when I was in the corner was the same man in the Coffin.

For several years later, I was not able to sleep properly with repeated nightmare and psychological disorder. I was terrified of being alone, I visited many psychologist. I could never turn off the light at night and several other turmoils that I had to endure throughout my adolescent age.

Years later I discovered something incredible that changed my life….





That dead idiot had a twin brother !!!!


Do You Really Know What You Want?

Today I invite you to check with yourself do you really know what you want? Do you really work to achieve what you really want in life? Or it is just a fake notion. Ask yourself that do you really push yourself enough to get real things done 🤔?

Reality is that the you allow your personal excuses, doubts, fears, attitude & beliefs to keep you from succeeding. You have convinced yourself that you aren’t worthy & then you’ve made that come true. Break this harmful pattern now, and start believing in yourself again.

Please remember that wanting to do something & motivating yourself to actually do it are two different things 😂. To have your desires fulfilled you have to be responsible for making them happen. You can’t live life at the mercy of your circumstances & expect it to bring the life of your dreams. It doesn’t work like that.

I agree that you really can’t choose or control your environment & circumstance, but you can always choose your attitude & reaction towards your circumstances & everything.

That’s the only difference between all those who never reach their goals, year after year & those who achieve one goal after another.

Let you quickly decide what will make you successful, happy, beautiful, successful & make you feel like a star. I mean fix some of SMART goals for yourself sincerely. Then check your present level of commitment, self motivation, thoughts, practices, routines & priorities to predict your chances of success. That’s the starting point.

Examine your own tricks & ways to improve all these & regularly assess the level of your consciousness, determination, pledge & interests. If you actively keep yourself fully charged, filled & motivated, you can significantly increase the likelihood of achieving your hopes, dreams & all goals.

Don’t let anything stand in your way. Continue making good efforts to stay self-motivated, spending significant time & putting efforts on acting to achieve everything you want in life.

Wishing you prosperity, success & all the very best for you & your loved ones. Stay Inspiring Everyone with your Motivation! 💐💐

Greatest Barrier To Your Achievement & Success?

Today I wish to remind you that padded pompousness, amour propre, fake bravado & abrasive attitudes shouldn’t disturb you. Do not let this make you feel disheartened. Believe you me that in long run, humility & silent determination only work. Nothing has been successful for long if it is done to outweigh someone & if it is done rampantly to serve the self egos.

However if they are really good, then appreciate them wholeheartedly without being jealous. Learn from them. Wish them all the best for the future success.

Coming back on you my dear, I sincerely request that – you do not need to drown in your own self pity & also do not need to tell yourself repeatedly that good things only happen to others & never to you. If you want, you too can create your own luck & start making your dreams come true.

What frustrate me more is that people will discuss their hopes & aspirations but then quickly in same breath add a comprehensive list of reasons why these will never be realized. They themselves create multiple barriers (excuses) to ensure that their life’s desires remain a fantasy rather than something that can ever be achieved. How funny it is. Isn’t it?

Do you know the greatest barrier to your achievement & success? It is not lack of talent or ability as you think, infact it is your fake list of possibilities in life, inability to begin, your unhealthy habits, indolence & your behaviors that stunt your growth. In reality, you’re inadvertently holding yourself back in ways you don’t even realize. One more thing, most of these so called barriers are just your excuses & reasons to not to achieve something without even seeing if it is possible. 

You know what to do & even how to do it, but taking action requires courage, the ability to withstand fear, humiliation & discomforts. But you are conditioned from childhood to avoid unpleasant feelings & to remain in comfort zone. That’s it. Did you get it 😂.

Having taken a leap out of the corporate world now & being a determined reader, eager listener, a coach & enthusiastic writer, I have concluded that you can pursue your dreams if you can have a positive mindset, gather the facts, make a good plan & begin with all that you have. I mean you can be on your way the moment you begin to appreciate the positives in your life & commit to action. I definitely mean that every day, you need to do something that improve your chances, circumstances & life.

Remember you do not know the limits of your own abilities. Successful or not, if you keep pushing beyond yourself, pursue excellence & keep doing your best (better than the norm), you will enrich your own life & experience more joy. I guarantee you.

You need to remind yourself that it is not the path that is important, it is you who is walking on it. Decide that whatever path you take, you will surely make a difference in your own unique way. 

Remember that this world craves immediate gratification. But real success takes time. You do need to become successful to prove superior to others & this world. Let you focus on getting better at what you do. Like the quote said:

“The only person you should try to be better than, is the person you were yesterday.”

If you do this, you become better every day.
Strive to become better for yourself, not to be compared with others.

Don’t mind if you’re not in the list of successful people yet, because it won’t be long when you will be the inspiration for others to work harder. Go ahead & challenge yourself & practice being the best to let the success follow you.

Let God make your good deeds & efforts most successful. Stay Blessed! 💐💐

A Few Cases, One Law: Why COVID-19 is not a ‘contract-killer’

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In the wake of the nationwide, worldwide even, lockdown on account of COVID-19 there is a mad rush amongst businesses to cut costs. Nobody can blame them inasmuch as these are difficult times and the proverbial belt requires tightening. Cash flow is weak, and expenses are a constant. In such times, it is but obvious that businesses want to eliminate as many payouts as possible. Typically, these payouts are rent, inputs, and salaries.

A. The Paradigm

Most businesses have three key payouts – rent, inputs, and salaries. Since business has been shut for almost a month and is likely to remain so for atleast another fortnight (not to mention the time it may take for normalcy to return), every person with a payment obligation is asking one question – can I claim force majeure or frustration of the contract and avoid making payments? I have consistently told anybody who has…

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Focus on the Abundance, not on the Lack!

Not only you but much of the whole world enjoy this poor scarcity mentality. They continue to remind themselves that there is a lack in life, that opportunities are few & that their present life is not good. This feeling is always fueled by the present economy, web world & society that continue to prosper only by reinforcing a scarcity mentality in people (always selling something).

Continuous focus on lack is quite painful & create a lot of unnecessary fear, anxiety & desperation. An abundance mentality, on the other hand, tells you that there are always ample chances & opportunities for everyone & everything. Believe me you do not have one shot only. Remind & reassure yourself that you can play as much as you want without any pressure, anxiety & fear.

From today onwards allow yourself to see the abundance in your world which perhaps is missing right now. For instance, if you are thinking to achieve something (fitness, success, long term prosperity, energy, love or anything for that matter), then don’t focus on something you lack right now. Focus & think about the abundance of possibilities in the world to make it happen & to achieve that. Soon ideas & opportunities to make that happen will start to “pop up” in your mind & world. You will see how everything including all the solutions, people & resources that have been always there in the background for quite a while just jump out at you. Try this for sometime.

It is truly said that what you focus on, you will see in your world (When you focus on what you lack, you only create more lack. It’s the law of attraction).

Remember that this universe photocopies your intentions, thoughts, words, actions & sends them back to you as your next experience.

Therefore stop spending your life with no goal, purpose or mission. Find motivation to seize everyday. You have the power to write your destiny.

Let you begin to do something important each day. Do something for your mind, body, soul & your world every day. Get some more air, light & space. Let you walk, write, learn, dance, paint, stretch, cook & most importantly laugh with your friends & family. I also recommend you to use this time to make yourself more happy, healthy & thriving by adopting some new habits, routines & techniques that work for you.

Let you begin to attend to all of yourself on a daily basis.

Let God bless you far more abundantly than all you can ever ask or think. Stay Safe & Sound 💐💐

You are not your problems!

I do not know about others, but I strongly believe that the wisdom of others mean a lot to me. Yesterday, while I & a few other coaches & trainers (all with old school thoughts 😂) were talking to each other, it was concluded that each of us, no matter who we are or where we are, have to experience personal challenges, showdowns, tragedies & crisis like the present one in life.

It is not about only natural calamities, you also invite problems, chaos & mess with your conscious or unconscious actions, inaction & reactions. It’s time to at least decide to stop creating problems where there are none.

Let you remind yourself that you always have the choice to just stay rooted in your own peaceful center. Give yourself ample opportunities to believe that you are doing everything right during this hard time & that things are going to happen exactly the way you want them to happen.

Remind yourself that you are never your problems or your crisis. You are never your isolation, alienation, your infection, your trauma or your zero bank balance. Your real true self is a deeper entity, magnificent being & is perfectly whole & well, no matter what you are experiencing at this point of time. Your real self is far beyond your imaginary self & far better than what this world has ever told you.

You can find your great master & your own mastery with in yourself. Let you shape yourself into a meaningful form of inspiration & motivation.

The differences among us lie only in how we
navigate these difficult times, respond to these & what we become after the crisis is over. You also need to remind yourself that even when calamities strikes, blooming is possible.

Let you continuously find things you have control over & take all the action, you still can, on these. Let you grow your ability to love your life, fortify sense of your own capabilities, reframe your interpretations, improve your self-care, your words, your actions & your thoughts. Let you deepen your understandings of yourself, others & whole world around you.

I thank you my friends for reminding me yesterday that life is to be enjoyed for all its messiness, twists & turns. These days are reminder that we are still alive & an opportunity to showcase our excellence, abilities, resilience & adaptability.

In the end I would like to remind you what John F. Kennedy once said

The time to repair the roof is when the sun is shining.

These words are absolutely right. Having said everything it is always advised that you must identify your leaks before a storm & patch these much before the rains.

I sincerely hope you, your family & every one in your world are doing well & are safe.

My best wishes are always there with you. Stay Amazingly Blessed 💐💐

Force Majeure clause fully explained!

So many property owners across the world are worried about the implication of Force Majeure clause in their registered lease agreements, which they think will make them loose their rents due to the lock downs forced by various governments. It seems that a lot of people with bad intentions are using this lame excuse to avoid paying or delaying their rents. I strongly feel it is not correct & tenants can not use “force majeure” clause to simply claim a forceful waiver of rents unless specifically mentioned.

There is no specific definition of Force Majure clause and it is as per the term mentioned in your lease agreements.

I am talking about such a clause in lease deeds:

Force Majuere:

That the Tenant shall not be liable to pay Rent and the Owner shall not be entitled to claim any Rent, if any natural calamity like earthquake, flood, rioting, lightning, etc. cause any damage to the Property rendering it unfit for the commercial activity of the Tenant, for such period the Property remains so unfit, however, only subject to a maximum period of three months. The Tenant may terminate and vacate the Property upon expiry of the said period of three months. In the event the Tenant does not exercise such termination/vacation the Tenant shall liable to pay Rent notwithstanding any such damage to the Property.

My opinion on the situation & this clause…

The Tenant continues to use / and / or occupy/ Benefit from the Leased Property even during the Lockdown Period and all his office furniture, equipment, fittings etc. are inside the Leased Property as it is & the Tenant continue to be in the full possession of the Leased Property as such. Tenant continues to derive benefit from the Leased Property, not only in utility but in reputation on account of not only conducting but appearing to conduct, its business in the Leased Property.

The Leased Property is not damaged & has not become unfit for the usage by the Tenant. It is also to be noted that no portion of the Leased Property has become uninhabitable or unusable due to any natural calamity like earthquake, flood, rioting, lightning, etc.

It is evident that the Tenant, and the tenant alone, has access to the Leased Property at this point of time even.

The inability to operate a commercial establishment from the Leased Property cannot be equated to be inability to use or occupy the Leased Property.

The Owner has leased the Leased Property to the Tenant & allowed the Tenant to use it for the lawful purpose. It means to comply with all laws of state is an absolute obligation of the Tenant & Owner can not be held responsible for any such lockdown orders of government or for that matter any other enactment of any new law.

Owner is fully complying with it’s obligation towards government and paying all taxes w.r.t. said premises.

Therefore the obligation of the Tenant to pay rental and other charges is not waived as there is no Force Majeure event has happened & nothing has happened as such which may be preventing the occupancy of the leased premises.

To further simplify this:

If the Leased Property is neither sealed nor rendered unfit for use or occupation and the Tenant continues to occupy the Leased Property in consonance with the Lease Deed then there is no force majeure event has happened.

Payment of lease rental is not contingent upon the health of the business operating from the Leased Property but is purely for the exclusive use of the Leased Property by Tenant.

Therefore it will not be wrong in concluding that even if the Tenant is not able to operate its business from the Leased Property & not generating revenue thereof is completely liable to pay the full lease rental as it is timely.

Owner fully reserve their right to file for breach of contract, in the eventuality that Tenant decide not to pay the rent for the Leased Property as agreed upon.

Tenants & everyone has to understand that owners have to pay Salaries, Mortgage Payments, EMIs etc. & therefore it is very important to receive the rents timely.

I wish to thank my son Aashish (soon to be a lawyer), Mr. Suresh Mittal (CA) & Mr. Vishal Ohri for helping me to build this opinion.

Thrive in Your Life With Style!

Sometimes it is not your fault & Sometimes it is. Sometimes you behave like God & sometimes not. Sometimes you are kind & make all the difference & sometimes you f**k up everything. That’s perfectly okay. These are all real, true statements that apply to you, me & everyone, no matter who you are & where you stand. Sometimes things may not be going well for you & it could be a total screw up. You may be looking like the biggest idiot on earth. That is perfectly okay. Don’t worry about it. Bcoz every little thing is going to be all right very soon.

Sometimes you need to step outside, get some air & remind yourself of who you are & where you want to be. Whereas sometimes you have to dig deep inside to find more of yourself, your strength, your original abilities, the patience & your passion to reach for the stars to change the world. Purpose of saying all this is to remind you of your prime objective i.e. to maximize your capacity to experience what life has to offer you & become more wiser, successful, satisfied & happier than you ever thought possible. It is also to remind you to do every damn thing in order to take advantage of your unique & powerful potential as a person to thrive in your life with some enthusiasm, humor & with some style.

Remind yourself that you still have a beating heart & air in your lungs in the midst of all this pandemic spread so that you can keep moving forward in the present moment. Therefore enjoy & appreciate all that is available to you at this moment & start loving the person who you are (without much regrets 🤔). I sincerely hope a new world will open up within you & all around you after this crisis is over.

Stay Living A Happy & Blessed Life! 💐💐