Stop letting the same people upset you again & again, stop letting others control your atmosphere & determine your mood, your peace & your joy, stop letting the things that don’t work out frustrate you & for sure stop giving away your joy, no matter what.
Let me remind you that mostly this world doesn’t care much about how you feel or what you think. It continuously operates & moves forward based on its own theories & narratives.
These theories & narratives are so powerful that you & I can’t change these easily.
Darling listen – stop seeking to change the world; try changing yourself. Someone asked me something similar yesterday. This is the answer – Among so many other things, I also need to stop being eaten by the theories, narratives, thoughts, actions & reactions of others. I too need to stop trying to change others & start minding my own business.
While I am improving on it, I will strongly recommend you to grow & get better by working on yourself & leave the world with it’s theories to swirl around at it’s own pace.
You & I, both have to learn this basic fact that we can’t control what people do or say, but we can control how we respond.
Let me remind this to you & myself once again – be aware of the garbage trucks in life. When somebody dumps a load on, you don’t take it personally. It’s not about you, it’s about their trash. You have the power, the ability to easily show them what you’re made of, but your strength is keeping yourself under control…
Remember this – the next time you’re tempted to be upset, ask yourself, is this really worth me giving up my joy over? I mean – What’s upsetting you now doesn’t have to upset you anymore.
Stay Calm, Cool & Steady! Live your life to the best of your ability. Keep smiling, keep being positive & instead of trying to change others, try improving your life & yourself each day.