Being noxious & obnoxious isn’t permanent. You can change!

Posted on Nov 22, 2022 by Rajesh Goyal

Today, I wish to remind you that we are all noxious & obnoxious to a certain degree. Every single person is capable of being toxic, has been or currently is.. 🤭.

Who isn’t guilty of being an unpleasant person every now & then?

Darling listen – some people have the desire to be educated on it & do better while others will ignore any accountability & continue to act the same way. Pay attention 🙏.

Toxicity stems generally from greed, blame, shame & guilt. When we are rushed, tired, hungry, stressed or not hydrated enough we generally make snap decisions, act or react abnormally without thinking of the other people in our life.

Toxic behavior is any kind of behavior, action or reaction that results in unpleasantness for those around you. This can range from accidentally hurting someone’s feelings to alienating close friends & family through consistently negative, begrudging & greedy behaviors. In other words, toxic behavior is whatever someone does to bring negativity upon themselves & others.

Sweetheart, it’s important to nip these behaviors & habits in the bud so both you & your loved ones can enjoy a life of ease, comfort & positivity.

It may take some time, but adapting small, positive habits & behaviours will not only benefit you, but those around you as well.

Here are these simple things you can do to become a happier & less toxic person:

Start accepting & recognizing the truth that you’re a toxic person & prevent yourself from going into self-pity mode. Because self-pity is a form of selfishness..
Start being nice. It doesn’t have to be something grand or extraordinary. You don’t even have to spend a single paisa. Just be empathetic & show some consideration to the people around you. It’s as simple. You will thank me later.
Start embracing the mess of life.
Make it a habit to stay away from negative conversations. Gossiping, backbiting & talking about unpleasant topics not only has a negative impact on your own happiness, it also affects those who are around you.
Start smiling & laughing more. Don’t start smiling because I told you to do it. Smile often because you want to. “People want to interact & be around those who appear to be happy”. Daily interaction with positive & uplifting people make us happier as well — all this just because of a smile 😃. “Smiling is inviting”

Being toxic isn’t permanent. You can change. While the results may not always be quick, one day you’re going to be able to look back & say how much you improved, all because you decided to start today.

Godd luck! Tons of Good Wishes & Blessings 💐