Surprise! What You Obsess Over Might Just Show Up (So Maybe Stop Staring at the dark & the problems 😂).

That familiar thought nudges me again this morning: we truly see what we’re in the habit of seeing & hear what our ears are attuned to. It’s almost as if our attention & focus acts like a powerful magnet, drawing towards us the very things we concentrate on most.

Sweetheart, think about it – if you want love, peace, happiness, joy & miracles, doesn’t it make sense to actively seek them out? Why your mind is then constantly scanning for negativity, for things that are wrong or missing, isn’t that what you tend to find 🤭?

Let you make a decision today & intentionally shift your gaze to notice the small miracles, the quiet moments of peace, the glimmers of joy. Believe me, when we turn our attention to finding beauty, it has a remarkable way of appearing everywhere. It’s not that these moments weren’t present before; it’s that we finally opened our eyes to see them.

In fact, joy isn’t a distant dream; it’s the beauty in the small, the sacred in the everyday. It’s right here on my lawn as I write this & it’s there in your room as you read. Simply notice. Practice noticing it, everywhere. When you resolve to see & appreciate the good, life reflects that appreciation back to you. It’s a universal principle.

Embrace this truth: you are strong enough to hold your concerns while also noticing joy, peace & love – your heart is big enough. Through these morning reflections, I aim to offer you the tools, techniques & gentle nudges to start living a life brimming with joy, purpose & fulfillment. This life, in all its messy & magnificent glory, is what you make it. 

Darling listen – ulltimately, the choice rests with you. Will you focus on the shadows or will you seek out the sunlight? Will you dwell on the flaws or will you marvel at the intricate beauty? It’s a simple concept, yet often challenging to consistently implement. But with a little practice, a gentle shift in mindset, you absolutely can do this.

I can tell you with unwavering certainty: you & the world around you, need this shift. You can uplift your own spirit & contribute to a more positive world simply by choosing to notice the good.

May your day be filled with the blessings you actively seek 💐