Today, your chances of winning the match are more than yesterday.

I see people of all ages spending hours & hours playing the famous game PUBG. When Mohak babu yesterday said that people who play games should have more smartness & finesse, made me to think that yes, that’s true.. because this game is all about strategy for survival, winning the war, running faster than the world, cooperation with partners, patience, focus, success & whole lot of other things. If all these are applied in real life, help us evolve as a great & successful person. It makes you more enthusiastic, daring, brave heart & cheerful (involvement of Aashish, Abhey & Nonu remind me this 🤣).

Some of the success lessons that you truly learn while playing PUBG or any other game.

Your Success Is In Your Hand!

You have to be in charge all the time & have a pan of action or method of operation to follow daily. Time gets away from you quickly & if you don’t manage it or take massive action immediately than you are killed. One more thing success lies outside your safe house & if you need success, you have to run towards it.

Work To Overcome challenges by Equipping & Improve Yourself For The Success!

Always keep a track on your skills, gears & all that you need in the level at this moment. Your success depends upon your ability to acquire best of the needed skills, abilities, talents & things that you will require to become successful in life. You may fail to understand the value of something until you require it badly. Pick your bullets whenever it is possible. Prepare yourself timely. Be smart. Be Equipped & Ready & Stacked all the time.

You Need To Plan & Have A Strategy Otherwise By Default You Plan To Fail!

Planning will ease the bumps in the road, allow you to consider your choice points when they arise & force you to sit down & think about your future, safety & growth of your people & of you, personally.

Running around aimlessly without having a proper plan will get you killed early on in the game. Same is with life.

Having a strategy is about making sure you are in the driver’s seat most of the gime with a clear vision of where it is you want to go to, why you want to go there & how you’re going to turn your vision into reality a.k.a your plan.

Your plan make all the difference between an awesome victory & a tragic loss.

Life Is About Choices & The Decisions We Make!

The smallest decision or choice have all the power to change your life forever. Decide on them with utmost deliberation. Once you have made a decision, be ready to face its consequences: good or bad. It may take you to a safe place or to a land of problems. As a gamer who else will know better than you that one bad decision could cost you everything.

There are always too many possible outcomes, which you really cannot control, but surely your decisions & choices.

Use Your Leverages!

One of the greatest challenges that is there in the game & life is to understanding what “to do” with the opportunities that fall in your lap along the way. You have obviously heard that “when life hands you lemons, make lemonade” is a great example of using leverage to move yourself forward. Almost all will think of making the lemonade & drink it themselves. But a successful & smart person in life will make lemonade & sell it to those without lemons & use the profits to buy more lemons or to find better opportunities.

Let you constantly find ways to create new opportunities every day & make full use of these.

Acquire Partners!

In order to achieve success or greatness you need a team of individuals who has (or believe in) same mission. That’s where assembling a great team of partners plays such an important role in your game, in life & in any organization. Many start out all alone ( remain all alone) as jack of everything & wearing all the possible hats to only fail at the end.

Having the Right Attitude!

To have a truly happy & fulfilling life, it’s important to know what’s really important & to develop values around what you can do each & every day to make things more easy, beautiful & successful. Sure, many who start a game want to have partners, but those who constantly feel superior to others or carry their entitlements or egos will never be successful in their life or game. When you are seen in a positive light by others, your team, your peers & partners, you achieve success, greatness & magnificence.

Sometimes in life, it is best to learn from the risks that others take & the mistakes that they make!

Like in the game you hide & wait to spot somebody reaching for a supply drop ( I saw Abhay doing it patiently), to analyse the danger of being shot. Then you go & grab the supply calmly with least risk of loosing your life. Do it without shame or guilt in life.

Help Those In Need!

Your act of graciousness will be returned when you need it the most. Revive your friend, give him supplies. He will, in turn, help you get what you want. Same happens in life, no matter where you are or what you are doing.

Don’t Live Life In A Rush!

Remember, the journey is as important as the destination itself. You are likely to gain innumerable resources along the way which will make your goal far more rewarding in the end.

Let your journey be a continual process of refinement, leading you towards your ultimate victory — the accomplishment of your life goals & dreams.

Do Not Give Up When Faced With Adversity!

Pull yourself together, devise a new approach & victory will be yours. Having just a stick in your inventory doesn’t mean that you’ve lost the match. Look at the bright side- you will be cautious in your approach & make a move only when required. Playing covertly will help ensure your survival. The realisation that you are weak at this point in time will make you find best resources, learn & change accordingly.

Your Best Teacher Is Your Worst Mistake!

PUBG is all about tweaking your strategy & play style by overcoming the little bumps that you experienced in the previous play throughs.

Every day you are becoming faster, stronger & better than Yesterday. Just because you couldn’t do or win yesterday, it doesn’t mean that you can’t achieve that today. Remember today you are wise by one more day. Today, Your chances of winning the match are far more than yesterday.

Let you direct all your energy towards manifesting your dreams. Let you experience a miraculous breakthrough soon not only in your level of game but in your life that is unexpected, magical & profound! Stay Blessed! 💐💐

Why Should You Live A Life Of Regrets Knowingly?

Your desire to act strongly on your vision, passion, determination, conviction, pain, love or whatever you call is finally going to make you to do amazing things & that only will bring miracles, satisfaction, sufficiency, happiness & fulfillment in your life & in the life of others.

Let you commit to yourself ( secretly or publicly) to make things much better not only for yourself but for everyone in your world. Let your work, thoughts, resolves & words inspire others to make things better & gather momentum in your circle to follow you.

Let me remind you that you really need to know what you are passionate about or what your original talent & abilities are or what you are really good at or atleast who you are in real sense. Because once you recognise yourself then only you can act. If you act without recognising your reality or magic then it will not bring worthwhile or satisfactory or great results. Not even good luck!

Infact it is only your self motivation, strong desires or passion that can push you to cross all the barriers because once you have found the fire in your belly or genuine aspirations or longing then you don’t care what it takes to achive them. I repeat that the secret to living the life you want or deserve is hidden in your intentions or passions & what you do because of them. It is simple.

Now the most important question is that do you really know what is passion? Or what your natural talent or passion or purpose or aspiration is? Or how to act on these? 🤔

Finding your real intents, natural abilities, real passion, purpose or your true self is a serious task & a full journey in itself. Don’t be frustrated if you feel like that you don’t know anything yet. Keep trying honestly. Keep trying new things. The more experiences you expose yourself to, the higher probability you’ll find one you are passionate about. If you don’t give it up then soon you will find these.

But what if you know about these but you are not doing anything about these? This is the main problem something you must worry about. You can have all the desires, dreams, passions, vision or missions but if you never do anything about these, everything is useless. If you are not ready to leave your comfort zone then nothing is possible.

Remember that you are the author of your life. No one else. Please don’t settle for the bare minimums just because it’s working out right now.

I mean why anyone should continue to live a life of regret knowingly. Believe me sooner or later you will regret on things you haven’t done or pursued, opportunities you have lost & deteriorated health just because of your poor habits, TV, internet & all that is available to you right now. I insist that you should immediately make a conscious decision to minimize those regrets & lead a more fulfilling, happier & meaningful life.

Motivate yourself to give up your egos, delusions, comfort zone, poor routines, habits, laziness & nonsensical lifestyles to achieve what you are really capable of. If you can’t do that, it’s probably because you are not passionate about your life or that you do not wish to become what you should be.

You will never know what you’re truly capable of unless you push yourself a bit more.

If you can attempt to improve yourself even 1% each day from today, at the end of 12 months you will be 37X better than today.

What you do after going through this article will confirm how passionate you are to live a great life. Please don’t just continue to stand on the sidelines of this beautiful life with your smart phone in hand & quit hanging on to the handrails. Go for the ride of your magnificent life. Do something great today & practise it doing everyday.

Wishing you a lifetime of happiness, sufficiency & significance. Stay Blessed! 💐💐

Response of Universe!

The nature & the universe is not at all responsible for creating such pandemic circumstances or other such situations randomly at it’s own. The set of situations that are presented to us in present times is a result of our collective deeds, every ounce of negativity & trash that we have produced & passed to universe in the past.

Original purpose of our lives was to align our lives with universe but we as most intellegent & powerful species tried hard to align universe with ourselves & our produces.

The result is in front of us – inner & outer chaos, turmoil & sickness. ‬

We in India know it very well, I mean the law of cause & effect, law of echo, or Karma, which simply means that whatever we do, say or even think will create a domino effect & will come back to us in some or the other form.

Everything you see “out there” is a response to what you are thinking, feeling & believing. Remember – Action & reaction are equal & opposite.

You get back what you put out. It is like a boomerang. You throw it out & it comes back.

If you put a negative out, you will get a negative back. Also, when you put a positive out you will get a positive back, maybe not straight away, but it will come. It’s the Law & the Laws of the Universe never make a mistake.

And imagine as a nation what we are producing & throwing collectively into the universe. As if it is a bin to collect your garbage. When a nation’s thoughts are loving, peace prevails & when a nation’s thoughts are unloving, chaos ensues. It is so simple.

Today there are clearly two sets of people. One who are continuously creating havoc with their nonsensical deeds, theories & philosophies. The Pandemics, unnecessary wars, environmental desecration, economic & criminal injustice, hopelessness, depression, uncertainties or fear among the society are the consequences of their endeavours. These are millions & millions!

And then there are other millions of people who are doing what they can, loving deeply, forgiving, serving, taking care of the sick & dying, repairing the earth continuously, restoring hope, feeding the hungry, saying the prayers & sending us the inspirations to lift us & to be our best.

Let me remind you that as a spiritual being, your individual possibilities are unlimited. Let you acknowledge your energetic force in order to elevate it further & transmit it to watch as Universe responds kindly in return to you & others.

Let your thinking, feeling, intentions, vibrations & actions bring you & your world an abundance of love, blessings, positive changes & everything that your heart desires & help you living the life you were originally meant to live.

Stay Blessed & Keep Sending Positive Energy To Your World & Universe! 💐💐

Check If Your Lifestyle, Routines, Priorities & Behaviours Have Become INTOLERABLE For You?

If you are the person for whom complaining is a better choice than action, shifting the blames & running from the responsibility are better than doing the real work or if postponing things are usual & you are fed up of doing it then continue reading… it is for you.

Infact this article is especially for those who wish to really take some steps to reach a level of magnificence, happiness, success or freedom that they actually deserve. This post is for all those who have become sick of their behaviors & become fed-up with their own bullshits, lies, toxic inner patterns, excuses & meaninglessness.

It is for the moments when you have started realising that your own lifestyle, lazy routines, priorities & behaviours have become intolerable for you.

Appreciate yourself for feeling that you are fed up with your nonsense because not so many will dare to have that realisation. This is the best thing you can do in the present moment. Nourishing this intent & feeling will automatically make you ready to move forward. This itself will motivate you to create a solid foundation to build, grow & make a big leap in life.

You need to quickly react to all such intention, listen to your callings & connect with all these. You will have to stop yourself from burying this inner voice because of your busyness, laziness, habits & fears.

Let you remind yourself that if you know there is a challenge in your life, you are obligated to find a solution.

People take big leap in life & do all the great things not because they are blessed with remarkable ability, great charisma or any special favours, but because when they hear their inner voice, “you need to do it & you can do it” they simply choose to act courageously. The first step to greatness is deciding to be the one who doesn’t just let life happen to them. So, pick your arena & go for it. You need to decide whether you will hold back yourself again or strike out this time.

Start taking 100% responsibility for every single damn thing happening in your life, no matter what. You need to feel more empowered & motivated, rather than helpless & hopeless. Remember that you are in charge of yourself, your choices, decisions, actions & reactions. All that. Please stop expecting other people to improve your life.

Tell yourself repeatedly that you have the ability to create a life that you really desire & deserve. Every moment you have opportunity to make a choice for yourself. Sometime this can be as simple as walking upto the fridge & choosing a beer instead of water.. 🤣.

If required, please invite a challenger, motivator, instigater or the one who can tell you to stop doing your nonsense & inspire you (or kick in you ass) to step out of your comfort zones to do something worthwhile quickly.

Remind yourself that you are so powerful & everything you need to do something great is already inside of you. How freeing & good is that!

I believe in you & I know that you can make the big leap in your life starting today.

Stay the course & follow through! 💐💐

रहस्यमय ईश्वर तथा सच

दूर किसी जगह छुपे हुये रहस्यमय ईश्वर तक पहुँचने की बजाये आपको अपनी नाक के नीचे हो रही दुष्टता, असाधुता तथा धूर्तता को पहचानने की जरूरत है। उसे तुरंत रोकने की जरूरत है। आपको अगर उस आनंद, परम् शान्ति और प्रकाश के स्रोत को पाना है तो सबसे पहले अपने भीतर के अंधकार को पहचानना होगा। अपने घट के भीतर ज्ञान के दिये को जला कर इस अंधकार को मिटाना होगा।

मेरा ऐसा विचार है की आपको असल मे किसी और नये सच को या उस रहस्यमय ईश्वर को ढूंढने की बहुत जरूरत नही है। आप तो खुद उसी ईश्वर के अंश हैं जिसको आप ढूंढ़ना चाहते हैं या पाना चाहते हैं। अगर आपको कुछ ढूंढना ही है तो अपने भीतर की बुराईयों, दुर्बलताओं, दोषों, हीन भावनाओं, बड़बोलेपन एवं सबसे अधिक ज्ञानी होने के घमंड को ढूंढें जिसके नीचे आपकी सच्चाई, श्रेष्ठता और सुंदरता दब गई है तथा आपका अपना ईश्वरत्व खो सा गया है।

अपने उस सचिदानन्द और सर्वशक्तिमान रूप को जल्द ही अनुभव करें तथा प्रकट होने दें। आपकी शुभता, सकारात्मकता, आरोग्यता, प्रभुता एवं विपुलता जल्द ही कई गुना बढ़ जाये, ऐसी मेरी प्रभु से प्रार्थना है। मंगल शुभकामनाएं। 💐💐

Lord Hanuman Ji, Pracheen Hanuman Mandir Connaught Place, New Delhi

Where is Heaven?

As they say that after you die, you will have all the comforts, luxuries & all the earthly pleasures of life that too without making any effort. If this is the idea you have for the heaven then you have completely misunderstood this, my dear. If this is the motive of all the nonsense you are doing then you are a fool.

What makes you think heaven is somewhere else? Why it is not this place? You have all the fun here, love, laugh, can eat all the tasty food & enjoy your companionship…. If that’s not what heaven is, I don’t know what it is.

Please forgive me for saying that some intelligent people have created this as an imaginary idea to serve only for their personal good. You know what I am talking about.

If heaven is ever to be experienced in life, it has to be here only while you are alive & on this very earth, nowhere else. So if someone says to you that by doing this or that, after death you will get better things than what are available to you here, please do not believe that. Because with that motive you are not going to do good & chances are that you will add more suffering & misery to your life & your world.

Appreciate, acknowledge & thank all those who are saying that you can create heaven for yourself here on this earth no matter where you are.

Let me try to explain my understanding of Heaven. It is nothing more than a state of mind. It’s an inside quality. When you have everything flowing in order, you feel like in heaven. When you have things you need, you feel like in heaven. When you have everyone that you long for, you feel like in heaven. When you have something meaningful to do, enjoy most of the moments of your life & can fulfill your purpose on this earth with ease, you feel like in heaven. When you are competent to inspire others to be more free, happy, sufficient in themselves, you are in heaven. When your heart is in a blissful state, you feel like in heaven & when your mind is calm & peaceful, for sure you are very much in heaven.

That’s it!

Believe me whatever virus, diseases, pollution, noise or mess that we see around us has not come from somewhere else, we are the one’s, who have created it. We have made it hell. We all wish to go to heaven after death but when we are alive we are building a hell…. how regretful it is!

Remember that your foxiness, arrogance, greed, selfishness, stupidity & imbalance mind not only perceives the mess in the outside world & problem with everything but also add more mess & mayhem to it.

I have been saying this for long that what if this planet is heaven & you have come here as a reward. Even if you choose to accept our mythology & all the ancient theories without an iota of doubt. You have been gifted fresh air to breathe, fresh water, great things to eat, opportunities to do great deeds & ofcourse every other thing that bring you joy, fun & happiness that you can’t get from where you have come. 😷😷

So the next time someone says the word “Heaven” & “Angel” think for a moment that they are actually referring to “This Place” where you are standing now & “You”.

Remember that there is no Hell except the one you create for yourself & others. There is no need to convert your heaven into hell first & then hope for the heaven after death. 🙏🙏

Stay Blissful, Wise & Enjoy Your Heaven! 💐💐

If you are in agreement of what I have said here or have some thoughts to add, I will appreciate if you can kindly write in the comments.

Heroism is doing something & not expecting any personal gain from it.

The movies have taught us that only when the world starts sinking, that’s the time when superheros arrive. They wait to arrive at right moment. So that cameras capture them & they get what they want… To be seen & to receive standing ovation & loud cheers always.😂

But believe me that’s not how it works in your life. I mean generally.

We need to see, care & work for what happens in all the moments. You are not allowed to escape a single moment. Heroism is not at all about appearing scripted always, it is the hard work of showing up when we are not expected to, of seeing what is possible when few are willing to believe, when no one sees the spark & especially when there are no perks. It is to work continuously to your best when there is no one to see your work & clap for you.

I repeat, one of the characteristic for real heroism is doing something & not expecting any personal gain from it. For me & obviously several others, It doesn’t have to be always giving up your life or taking a life for something on the battlefield or saving someone from a burning house. As long as you are continuously doing something that you feel must be done in some way, that qualifies as heroism for me.

You really don’t need to wear a red underwear over your dress to make the world a better place. That is only for cameras & to attract the attention 🤣. To perform heroic acts, in normal life, all you need is to do many small deeds everyday that adds up over time, serve your world, spread love, inspire others that create a ripple effect. Your deeds should build your self-esteem but not at the cost of others. I mean doing intentional, committed & sometimes even extraordinary things day-in and day-out to advance a cause you believe in.

Believe me most of the world is busy in stealing the credits, in complaining, blaming & talking shit. To be a hero, you need to tackle that negativity by yourself. Remember that in real life, no one will come & whisper in your ear that you are a super hero or future superstar.

Let me remind you that your defining moment is whenever you decide it is & you get a new chance to do great things every day.

Before I end my today’s article, I must also remind you that there are so many Superheroes around you, who unconditionally love you, support you, do things for you, give you unreserved credits, love you, inspire & motivate you, guide you, correct you, invisibly remove obstacles from your path, bring you closer to your aspirations, pray for you, root for you, do their utmost to make your life a bit more comfortable & more joyous. They make you feel that you are a superhero, a superstar & a person who deserves all the praise & admiration.

I wish if you can notice them, acknowledge them, appreciate them & be grateful for them because it is a remarkable blessing to have such goodness & love in your life.

Let you thank your Angeles for blessing you with some good souls & feel grateful, fortunate & more joyous now than ever.

Stay Blessed & Keep Being Your Awesome Self💐💐

Stop Being a Puppet of Borrowed Thoughts & Feelings

Your thoughts, point of views, opinions, perceptions, feelings & reactions are rarely yours. Infact most of these are inspired by your connections, your current situations & circumstances, what you mostly see on social media, your own & social expectations & everything else you hear & see.

Believe me, all of these have tremendous effect on your life, your world, the way you live & what you achieve in life. Whether you accept it or not but it is true that every thought that you think is creating your future.

Because over a period of time you, in many respects, become at the mercy of them & they start running your show.

Your these thoughts & feelings have incredible power to shape your life & the lives of others, because the compilation of these thoughts, assumptions & interpretations of circumstances directly influence your beliefs & ultimately your actions.

But hardly anything you can do about it. That’s what is happening with everyone. All you need to do is to remind yourself that it is not a true reflection of who you really are.

Remind yourself that you are the gatekeeper of your mind & can decide what you want to let in & what you don’t.

It is said that you have or generate approximately 70000 thoughts in a day & if even half of your thoughts you think each day are negative, it’s easy to see how letting those thoughts exist unchecked & unquestioned can make staying positive, meaningful, productive, hopeful & goal-oriented impossible.

If your thoughts were original, so good, intelligent, kind, trustworthy & beautiful, then believing them would have definitely lead to a very different life & world. To really understand the affect of what I am trying to say here, let you begin to notice the results of checking this in your own life, in other people’s lives, in your society & in your world. If they were not puppet of the borrowed thoughts, ideas & feelings than we all would have been more happy, loving, at peace, free, wise, clear, beautiful, sufficient & more loveable or there would be atleast no need to seek greater peace or love at this juncture.

If you sincerely want to be in the driver’s seat of your life & wish to manifest your own reality, you must know your thoughts & that means all of them – realistic & fake or positive & negative. After acknowledging these, all you need to do is – remove the negative thoughts that are preventing you to live a meaningful life you should be living.

Filter out & simply keep only useful, productive & those thoughts that make you feel good about yourself. Retaining negative thoughts & feelings will make you feel bad & diminished in some way or the other & most often hold no purpose in serving your well-being. Let you intercept all these negative & nonsensical thoughts, mindsets, interpretations & feelings before they wreak havoc on your future & your world.

Before I conclude my article, I feel like reminding you yet again that your mindset, thoughts, feelings, assumptions, interpretations & opinions can be your greatest allies or your worst fleet of enemy. Input from the world & media plants exceptional seeds of success or failure in your mind.

Let you seek only positive inputs to improve your chances of producing positive outputs & better responses. After all, the choice is yours.

Let your thoughts, words & deeds be in alignment with what you really need at this point in time & what you want to become in near future. 🙏🙏

Stay Blessed, Magnificent & Praiseworthy! ✌️

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The Magic of Eating Out or Watching a Movie Can Never Diminish.

After several weeks of confinement, the experience of seeing a film or eating out or partying with friends will be all the way more magical than ever before. I am so sure about it 🤣.

While some of the people were & will always be allergic to our former lives, noises, car jams, over crowded markets & restaurants filled with happy people… I feel most of us would like to return to our free life instead of being confined in homes, no matter what.

Obviously the silent, car-free streets & clean air during confinements made me also realise that how punishing our city lives are. But is it how we are supposed to live? Can whole world enjoy & afford compulsory holidaying for long? I mean how long can we remain in isolation? 🤔

There are people who are saying that people will not return to cafés, fine dinning restaurants, cinemas, bars or clubs… In my views that is very pessimistic thought. I have my opinion, people will. The magic of eating out or watching a movie can never finish.

I will say that these cafés, restaurants & entertainment places are essential tools for our well-being & happy life.

I read a few articles to confirm this. I read about spanish flu which took 50 million lives & about world war-II.

After these so much bigger disasters than this current pandemic were over, demand of such public places increased many folds. People did not choose to continue keeping themselves locked. Business of cinemas & cafés, after the tragedies, were recorded higher than in any decade before or since. I repeat what I read in an online article

After The Great Depression of 1929, movies played a critical role in keeping people entertained.

and every calamity made people more interested in travel, cinemas & cafés, not less.

I’m sure that reopening of these places will be a cause for a huge celebration & we all will see a rush.. desperate people will come out of their houses, flocking back to watch films & eat together at such places.

One more sectors which is completely depressed is educational institutions & coaching centers. My friend Gopal Agarwal owner of a famous chain of coaching institutes in Delhi called me to ask my opinion about how I see future of these coaching institutes post this pandemic is over & I said same thing. I said that everything will return to normal because there is no alternative. Online education can compliment the instructor led training system but can not replace it. Not atleast in skill training sectors.

Don’t worry, this world has survived wars, pandemics & every damn thing. Check with your grandparents.

Fear is OK. Fear is natural. But don’t let the fear control you. I am sure there will be a vaccine very soon. Till then, you’ll probably have to enjoy living with it.

Remember, this is not the last epidemic. You & everyone in the world needs to be better informed & more prepared.

Let God bless & help us in finding ways to bliss, balance & life again. Stay healthy & hopeful 💐💐

What you think about it? Do you agree with my assumptions or not? Please write your views & thoughts in comment section 🙏

Time to live the life you want!

I am sure you must have observed a fly stuck in your car & going crazy to go out. But doesn’t go out even if all the windows are wide open. This unnecessary struggle of fly remind me how often we behave in similar fashion.

So after a bit of uncalled struggle, you too become tired like the fly & just travel to a completely unknown place.. I mean where ever life takes you.

However, it doesn’t have to be this way.

Remind yourself that if your habits, routines & lifestyles are not making you healthier & happier, that only means that you are making yourself sick, unhappy & unsuccessful. It is obvious 😤.

Obviously like fly, we all are desperate to achieve freedom, success, happiness, fulfillment, fame & respect, but habitually remain focused on things that are irrelevant & doesn’t help us at all in achieving any of these.

Let you try to build the routines that will help you to replace the bad habits with good habits.

Before I go further, I wish to remind you that your happiness, success or fulfillment has nothing to do with luck, deserving or entitlements, these are dependent upon what you focus on, your choices, decisions, practices & habits.

Bringing more sufficiency, bliss & contentment in your life is a very real & close possibility. You just have to put in a little work. Hope you are ready to do that 🤣?

Google is filled with so many ideas, tips, shortcuts & tricks to achieve freedom, success & happiness. I too have taken liberty to pen down a few of some simple ways to feel good, happy & successful. Some are only repetitions.

Be Meaningful!

I do not know exactly about you, but so many people do not know what they have to do. They really do not know their real purpose in life. They even don’t bother much about it. They have found mobile & TV as an easy way to pass their days.

The point I am trying to make is if you are not doing anything meaningful, you are bound to feel uneasy, worthless & unhappy.

Motivate yourself to find something interesting that demands your full attention, skills, abilities & start working on it immediately.

Remember, meaning comes from belonging to & serving something beyond yourself & from developing the best within you. 👑

Be Choiceless!

You are searching a way out from the car but you see so many glasses, windows.. in same way when you have too many choices, it exhaust you completely, making you stop trying & prevent you from making a decision all together or finally making a bad decision 😪.

Remember too many choices make you miserable & paralyzed.. you end up making no choice.

Do not keep your options open for long. Decide & choose things quickly. Narrow down the choices asap & choose to act on one or a select few.

Build a few clear guidelines & ideas of what you want in real & absolutely don’t want from the available range of options. This can filter out the possible choices & also make you more happy & confident about your decision making abilities.

Focus On Yourself Instead Of Others!

You are likely to see 100s of advertisements, 100s of advices,100s of whatsapp messages, etc. & perhaps most of these are total nonsense 🤣. Anything telling you what to eat, how to look fair (like someone), act or behave in a certain way is making you fool. Avoid falling into their marketing trap.

You need to be true to yourself. You need to recognise & pursue your genuine passions, intentions & interests without copying someone or feeling bad about your authenticity.

Every individual has something they can contribute to the world. You too have. The hard part is figuring out what that is. This will not become clear unless you do something about it.

Cultivate Curiousity!

You will agree to the fact that all the great things that exist in your world today are a result of someone’s curiosity. It’s the reason why people like Newton, Steve Jobs, Thomas Edison or Mark Zuckerberg created some of the most innovative products of all time.

By using your curiosity to help you get better at something, become more knowledgeable or see something in a new perspective, you’ll find life to be much more meaningful & enjoyable.

Don’t let your curiosity end only in playing games or finding the climaxes or on social media feeds.

Stop Deferring Things!

If you think procrastination means you are lazy, unmotivated, or lack self-discipline, you’re right. Putting off tasks is a very bad habit.

Do you procrastinate? Of course you do. You put off challenging tasks most of the time. When you defer anything, what happens next is you scold yourself. You ask yourself, What’s wrong with me? I knew what I needed to do to meet that deadline. Why have I screwed up yet again… bla bla…

Whatever it is you are procrastinating on, if you want to get it done, you need to get a grip on yourself & do it. Afterall you can’t postpone feeling happy, good & praiseworthy.

Cross The Line Of Your Comfort Zone!

The comfort zone is a beautiful place to be. But not much happens there. All great things, success, medals, glory, bright future, sufficiency, admiration & joy always come from outside the comfort zone. This means doing things that you resist, hate, or even fear in normal course.

However, for you to push out of your comfort zone constantly, to always be in the face of discomfort, uncertainty, resistance & to be okay with that, you really need lot of guts, will power & solid reasons. You need spark to drive you out despite of all the resistances. This spark can be a passion you are trying to pursue or a vision you are trying to realize or a picture that you have created of your ideal self.

Some More….. !

  • Learn more about things that you do not know. Invest some of the time & energy to learn more about what you are getting yourself into can increase your chances of accurately placing yourself in happier situations & can make you successful more than what you plan.
  • While owning material possessions can be nice, they can never be a part of you like great experiences can be a part of you. This is why you should invest more in experiences rather than things. Travel more instead of buying more.
  • Let you shift your focus from being unhappy about the things you don’t have in your life to being glad for the things you do have at this point of time.
  • Regularly appreciate those who have done something recently for you, no matter if it is inconsequential even.
  • Inject things you are thankful for in your daily conversations instead of focusing on negative topics & finding opportunities to bash everyone around.
  • Pray & Meditate. If you don’t have 10 minutes to pray, you don’t have a life.

Start living a happier, successful & more fulfilling life by making small changes & taking meaningful steps toward a better you. Stay Blessed 💐💐