Today I want to share with you that everyone has some issues, difficulties, problems or something that is bothering them constantly. But if you ask them, the person will give a stereo typed reply – everything is great…. even if they are just full of shit 😂.
If someone says that there are people in this world who have perfect lives without any problem. I will not agree to that.
Illnesses, problems, setbacks, roadblocks, troubles, difficulties, challenges, obstacles – whatever you want to call them – happen all the time & to everybody. Remember, you are not alone. It’s a normal part of life, like it or not. If you treat them as a normal part of life, you will probably solve them much easily than others.
There are going to be some issues that you have created & are totally your fault due to your bad choices. There are also going to be many problems in your life that are simply out of your control. Either way, it’s up to you as to how you respond to these & how you resolve these. It is completely up to you whether you solve your problems or make yet another poor decision that will either increase the gravity of challenge or negatively affect your life more than earlier.
Your problems grow because you choose to respond these with a negative & egotistical state of mind & take half-hearted steps.
I mean, challenges are inevitable, but drama, self-pity, panic, complaining & blaming are totally optional. It’s your choice. It’s up to you to be either solution-minded or play the poor & helpless victim card ( by the way no one brothers about that 🤣).
Let you do not avoid these by closing your eyes, get rid of or shrink from your problems. The secret is to grow yourself so that you’re bigger than your problems.
I somehow feel that most of our problems have a very simple solution & we probably don’t require as much effort to overcome them as we might imagine. But we complicate things too much when we begin to solve our problems.
All you need is if you have an elephant 🐘 in room i.e. problem, then recognise & accept it respectfully. In order to solve anything at the micro and macro levels, you must first acknowledge that the problem is real & is not going to go away on its own. You have to finally decide to MAKE your problems or illness go away.
Every issue must be faced, not just with guts but with the guiding light of true thoughts, intentions & dedicated efforts.
This elephant has come in your room because you invited him, possibly made a poor decision somewhere along the line, or you’re just not doing something the way it should be done. Take a step back & see the landscape of your problem for what it is & then make better decisions moving forward. Alter your approach & do something a little differently this time around. This is of course all about approaching your problem with a flexible & open mind, positive intentions to solve & with full force, capacity, abilities & all that you have.
Use 80 percent of your time to find solutions & only 20 percent to complain, worry & blame. It might not always be easy but focusing your energy, time and thoughts in this way is much more beneficial for you than doing the opposite 😉.
Remind yourself complaining or crying will not solve anything, not a bit of it. Your issues will only increase with all that emotional drama. Like most people, don’t choose to do nothing. Don’t be “most people” 🙏.
In no way, I claim that this post will give you a foolproof process for solving your all problems, but, I sincerely hope that this may provide you with a new perspective, inspiration & few more options that you can use to make your life a little easier & your problems a little smaller 🤗.
My best wishes are with you 💐💐. Stay Blessed!