Today I wish to take up something that is not told to you by any of your loving people (knowingly).
I am talking about your inflated sense of importance, your need for excessive attention & admiration, habit of hogging the conversations, your fishing the appreciation & praise for yourself, your completely self-absorbed behaviours completely ignoring the emotions that belongs to others. It is annoying. 🤐
I wonder if you know that you almost overreact on everything. You are a screamer. When you are triggered, you loudly express your displeasure by publicly devaluing the person whom you hold responsible. It is bullying others. 😪
I am sure you do not know that your hurtful one-liners & jokes are not quite funny. These only lower other’s self-esteem. It looks that you insist on a reaction so that you can pull down others more forcefully. 👺
People around you know that you blame everyone else even if it is your fault.
You always want others to accommodate you as it is & don’t want to accommodate anyone.
If you don’t know, let me remind you that people mostly feel empty after an interaction with you.
To sum it up, you only think about what you need, how you can get what you want & how things make you feel. Very disappointing. 😵
For God sake, start acting kindly toward others & stop acting out superior attitudes or tendencies to demean others. Please start paying more attention to the world & start considering their points of view. 🙏
Remember, empathy is something you can learn. Your first reaction might be your static trait, but you can always change when you react. 🙏
Adopt the live & let live attitude, become more tolerant of diversity. Let you do your thing & let others do their thing. Become more agree to disagree. Become more caring & compassionate. Stop invoking & engaging in conflicts unnecessarily. 🙏🙏🙏
Yes, you can make your life better & greater, starting from today. You are an intelligent, competent & wise person, you can change your beliefs, perceptions, habits, reactions & viewpoints with planning, diligence & some honest efforts. 🙏
Never forget that you’re not alone, we’re all in this together. I wish you Good luck & my blessings are with you 💐💐