I wish to tell you that it’s completely okay if your life seems like a mess to you. It’s okay if you are lost or haven’t found your way yet. It’s okay if you haven’t found your real place in this world yet.
I repeat – It’s okay! No need to feel frustrated, overwhelmed or disappointed.
You deserve genuine & lifelong success, happiness & wellbeing, that can’t be taken away from you no matter what goes around you or happens in the world.
For this kind of life, you have to work consistently with time & patience. This kind of life is big goal which will require changes in your lifestyle, routines, priorities, attitude & behavior. They’re not overnight goals.
But, today you have a blank canvas & you don’t know where to begin. You have multiple things to improve & achieve in life. Today, you really don’t know what to do, where to start. It’s perfectly okay.
You just need to start – start at A & don’t try to jump to Z immediately.
Take a step by step approach.
Think of one, the most immediate, small thing you can do today or tomorrow. Just think of what you want to do. Just think of what you can immediately start & stop. Think of first small step you can take today.
Start giving your best in everything that you have in your hand. Stop fighting, stop questioning & stop trying to gain control over everything.
Remember, healing, growth & progress happens over a period of time – one step at a time. I am sure you think it is not cool, but that’s how thing works in life for most of the world.
Okay, let me ask you – What if you were to clean your complete home on your own? Obviously you can’t throw cleaning materials & water on whole house at once. You take one room, clean it & then you move to the next.
That’s it. One step at one time. Clean one room at one time.
For an example, if you plan to improve your health to begin with you – Then instead of immediately starting a difficult to maintain diet, can you stop eating junk while you are at home? Can you drink 3 more glasses of water each day? Or stop eating past 9 pm? Can you begin to walk more, use stairs than lift?
Means, bring a small change, establish it & then see what’s the next most immediate small thing you can do? Remember, to make your first step solid before you take on another.
I repeat – move forward day by day, step by step.
I pray God to help you receive an extra dose of motivation, enthusiasm & energy to take first step in order to create what you really want, do what you really love & start living your life exactly how you want.
My best wishes & blessings are always with you 💐