Today I want to ask: What is your YOUR ULTIMATE CONCERN or GOAL?
I am sure you know this – Your choice of Top Goal control your life, happiness, health, growth, ultimate success & almost everything.
If you think only achievements, accomplishments or some kind of success will bring happiness in your life as by-product then you are completely wrong.
Though you know this very well, but let me repeat this – How many people with more money, success, fame, accomplishment & everything than you & me ever will ever have – ended up miserably & even committed suicide?
Focusing on various means to happiness has actually caused so many to lose sight of the happiness & life. They forgot that happiness was the ultimate goal in life. Instead, people began to do “whatever it took” them to get the money, status, power & became successful. But that “whatever it took” thing undermined their happiness. So sorry for them.
That’s why I will say that focusing on these stupid goals & obtaining them will not lead to happiness (peace & fulfillment) automatically.
Please do not make that same mistake. Not atleast you. Always remind yourself that our top goal is Happiness – all other goals are only means to happiness.
I know that I have not accomplished great things as compared to those you see on TV. I also sometimes wish that I could do more. But today I am so proud of my level of happiness, peace of mind & fulfilment that I can not tell you in words. The kind of self actualization that I have achieved & the way I have contributed to a few others is something that makes me pat my back again & again.
Please choose happiness & self actualization for itself & never for the sake of something else.
Research proves the idea that making happiness as a top goal leads to being more happier, healthy, successful & having better relationships with the world. This self actualization goal will help having less depression, anxiety & resentment.
A few days back when I was compiling this article, I spoke to a couple of people – once they realised that what I am saying is right, they asked me immediately – how should they begin to chase happiness? My spontaneous answer was choosing to be happy is to choose to be happy! That’s it.
I, myself have made a commitment to make happiness for myself & others the top goal/ the top concious concern in my life for at least a few years.
Here are a few scientifically proven ways to be incredibly happy. Try One. Try Them All. They Work.. I guarantee!
I know for sure that this is not a complete list. You may already be knowing so many more keys to happiness.
All I am asking you is to start using these or those you know already from this moment onwards. My only purpose of writing this was to reassert the importance of happiness as a primary goal. So that you can become happy, healthy & most successful asap.
Alway remember that making happiness your ultimate concern in life is also aligning yourself with Universe & allowing Universe to provide you more opportunities & experiences of HAPPINESS.
I wish you all the Happiness, Joy, Health & Success In Life. Blessings 💐