I know whole lot of people like me who don’t like craziness, excessiveness, extreme things, unpredictability & drama. No way. We are more comfortable with those who are predictable, balanced, calm, grounded, rhythmic & harmonious in nature.
I like people who are clear-headed & self motivated. I like those who acknowledge other’s presence & their deeds. I like those who empower other people, inspire others to be more of themselves & give credit to others.
I also respect & admire more who are happy, healthy, successful, stable, experienced & are knowledgeable.
I am sure like everyone else you will also like to become more respected, admired, loved & followed.
Here are a few simple yet most useful habits which I have found common in all those I admire, appreciate & enjoy.
They Enjoy & Celebrate Other’s Success
They Give Credit To Others
They Feel Blessed & Bless Others Frequently
They Engage In Deep Conversations
They Always Remember Positive & Good What Others Have Done To Them
They Are Always Involved In Life Rather Than Be Alienated From It
They Enjoy Doing What They Are Doing Rather Than Finding Their Activities Dreary & Dismal
They Have High Sense Of Control Rather Than Feeling Helplessness
They Spend More On Experience Rather Than On Goods
They Try To Say NO More Often
They Wake Up Early
They Have A Set Routine & They Stick To It.
They Update Their To Do List & Calender Regularly
They Walk 10000 Steps & Exercise Regularly
They Are Serious About Their Health, Growth As A Person & About Their Well-Being
They Appreciate, Savour & Enjoy Each Moment
They Are Fully Present, Aware Of Where They Are & What They’re Doing & Not Overly Reactive Or Unnecessarily Overwhelmed
They Spend More Time Out Side Not In The Room. They Love Travelling
They Pursue Meaningful & Intrinsic Goals
They Always Have an Unwavering Resolution to Succeed
They Take Calculated Risk & Always Willing To Work Hard
They Choose Good Attitude, Manners & Practices
They Smile & Say Hello Even If They Have to Fake
They Choose To Be On Time
They Think, Plan & Write
They Try Doing Atleast One or Two Good, Meaningful Or Big Thing Everyday
They Mostly Forgive Themselves & Others
They Always Learn From Mistakes
They Are Hopeful, Optimistic & Have Things to Look Forward To
They Understand & Follow Their Intuition
They Don’t Over Think Of Flaws, Problems, And Shortcomings Of Others
They Don’t Compare Themselves to Others
They Make People Laugh Frequently
They Are Loving, Caring, Generous
They Wisely Spend Their Time, Energy & Resources
They Never Procrastinate
There may be more but these few are based on my own recent experiences. If you will notice, many of the above habits are similar — most are about the right state of mind. This clearly suggests that the key to achieving anything is how you approach it mentally.
If you want to become the best version of yourself, maximize your personal growth, become happiest, healthiest & successful person, start building a list of such habits & practises. Thereafter build a strategy for self-improvement, map out your route to get to your best possible self & start taking inspired actions persistently.