Not Everyone Wants To Be Extraordinary!

I today read Swami Avdheshanand Giri Acharya ji tweet in which he wrote:

“nothing is impossible to achieve when there is pure intention, prayer & hard work”

This made me to ask everyone here when was the last time you did something with love, trust & pure intention in your heart & mind?

What was the result?

Now that bring me to revelation that most of us often act & think because of the fear of what we don’t want or just to avoid pain or to avoid looking bad or out of fear of punishment or guilt. I believe that mostly people do not act from their true desires, unaffected by the fear or rejection or looking stupid. Do you 🤔?

The ordinary people do not think, act & do not take the necessary steps to change their lives from ordinary to extraordinary. Okay, this is fine, not everyone needs to work hard to become an extraordinary version of themselves 🤣. Not everyone wants that kind of fulfilling life.

You must continue to read this if you are the one who is not satisfied with living a mediocre life identified by anxiety, pain-avoidance & worries, it’s time to take the necessary action to upgrade & make sincere efforts for your own satisfaction & progress.

You have so many opportunities to practice living with pure intention everyday. To make choices & decisions based on pure love & trust. Remember each time when you think from your expanded consciousness, the moment is precious. Cherish it!

Let me remind you that you don’t empty your lungs in panic. You deliberately empty yourself knowing that you will be filled again, automatically. Sometimes life treats you the same way.

This is that time, I mean Covid19 that has emptied our old beliefs, knowledge, thoughts & acts. The universe has turned us upside down & has shaken every damn little thing in the world.

We all are eagerly waiting to be filled with something new after this time. Now what moves into that space while we wait, what comes to make a home in our heart as the world changes around us, that all depends on our purest intentions, thoughts, acts & reactions.

So are you preoccupied with everything wrong in your life? Are you going to fill the void again with thoughts of distress, desperation, anger & pity? Or will hope, love, gratitude, sincerity, determination, enthusiasm, passions, renewed energy, clarity & focus will come to stay where fear once lived?

It is good time when you must allow all those bad habits, unhealthy lifestyles, poor thinking, wrong beliefs & all that which has prevented you from achieving your true potential & experiencing your most powerful energy, clarity & focus to leave you. Don’t allow anything to imprison you any more in an unsatisfying lifestyle of your own choices, feelings & poor intentions.

Let you begin to live with pure intentions, meaning & purpose. Let you remind yourself that your God is on your side.

You have guides around you willing to speak to you both directly & indirectly. There is much to trust within you & surrounding you with love. Let you begin to move forward with the resources that are springing from within. Let you use this opportunity to evolve into something more powerful, dynamic, courageous & capable than you have ever been. Let you choose to become extraordinary.

Stay Magnificent & Live Your Dreams.

Hope this helps.

Feel free to share your thoughts, opinions & please leave a comment.

संघर्ष ही सफलता की सीढ़ी है।

क्या आप इस बात से सहमत हैं कि कोयला ही हीरा बनता है? या यूँ कहे कि कोई भी कार्बन आधारित पदार्थ चाहे वो राख ही क्यों न हो, हीरों में परिवर्तित होने का नर्संगिक गुण रखते हैं। सदियों तक जमीन में गहरे दबे रहना, उच्च तापमान और बहुत उच्च दबाव की वजह से ही ये पदार्थ “कुछ नही” से “हीरा” बन जाते हैं।

और यही सिद्धांत हमारे जीवन पर भी लागू होता है।

हम सब जानते हैं कि प्रतिभाएँ अपनी पहचान स्वयं बना लेती हैं। उनका हौसला और इच्छाशक्ति उन्हें शून्य से शिखर तक ले जाने का कार्य करती हैं और वो हर तरह की बाधा, संघर्षों व अड़चनों के बावजूद ऐसी सफलता प्राप्त करते हैं कि समाज और संसार लिए उदाहरण बन जाते हैं।

यही वजह है कि चाहे कितना भी समय बदला हो, युग बदले हों, परिस्थितियां बदल गई हों, फिर भी कड़ी मेहनत व लगन से सफलता के लिए किया गया प्रयास अपना सुफल देने में, चमत्कार दिखाने में कभी भूल या देरी नहीं करता और यही कारण है कि अभावों के बीच रहकर, उच्च दबाव तथा कठिनाइयों में रह कर सफलता पाने के इतिहास युगों युगों से लिखे गए हैं, रचे गए हैं और आगे भी रचे जाते रहेंगें।

आपके संकल्प, सकारात्मक चिंतन, आंतरिक व्यक्तित्व, आपके निरन्तर किये गये प्रयास और शुभ कार्य जल्द ही आपकी असाधारण शक्तियों और विलक्षण प्रतिभाओं को प्रकट तथा उदय करें। आपकी सोच पहले से अधिक विस्तृत एवं परिष्कृत हो जाये। आप जल्द ही खुशहाल जीवन और उज्ज्वल भविष्य की रचना कर पायें। आपके घर आंगन और संसार मे सदैव प्रेम, उत्सव और हर्षों-उल्लास बना रहे। आपके सभी द्वंद्व और विकार खत्म हो जायें। ऐसी मेरी प्रभु से प्रार्थना है। मंगल शुभकामनाएं। 💐💐

SO WHAT NOW?

The current Corona situation made this a all together different kind of year, with different things on our minds. These days have transformed our complete outlook on living life & our world. Masking yourself became a part of our life 😂.

During the last few months we have experienced significant & profound changes in our lifestyles, routines, priorities & work habits due to this pandemic (which our generation has never seen earlier).

12th May, I mean today is 50th day of lockdown. Each of us is quarantined within the four walls of our homes. It was not only our duty but also our responsibility towards the nation to follow it diligently, as it was a much-needed step to contain the spread of COVID-19. We did it so far most sincerely.

But on a lighter note, It changed the way, we related ourselves to the calendar & clock. These have become almost pointless these days.

While working on my daily writing routine, I completely lost track of time almost everyday & forget what day is it today? I often found myself wondering is today, yesterday, or tomorrow are different anymore? I am thinking how new routines of being at home changed the meaning of “having time”.

I am sure some of us must have enjoyed these days like never before while some of us have felt bored, depressed, anxious & sick. Some of the people are constantly asking “So what now”?

Forget about these sick, tired & bore people (they are that type, no one can help 🤣), here I am talking about those who have used this time to realize all the good things that they have in their life. Who are thankful for everything they have without which it would have been impossible to live during these special days.

I am also pretty sure that some of you like me would have created plenty of feelings & moments of laughter, joy, love & contentment during these days, freeing yourself & others from the grip of negative emotions like anxiety & worries of present & future. I hope that these days must have broadened your thinking & prompted you to behave in healthy & positive ways.

You will agree that these days have reinstated the fact that it is only your family which is beside you through thick & thin. This was once in a lifetime opportunity for all of us where we have spent so many days together with our families. Hope you have taken full advantage of it 💞?

Staying at home the whole day means sleeping & eating more than usual making you fatter & lazy (more than the earlier). But some of us could set a routine for ourself quickly & followed it sincerely. Must have allocated time for sleeps & snacks. Used time in doing extraordinary things which we haven’t done all these years in addition to completing the target of 10000 steps.

Home quarantine has also made us value our freedom of stepping outside, anytime & anywhere.

There were whole lot of people who hated going to schools, colleges & offices. Now, day & night at home must have made them realize the importance of going to their work places. I was talking to some people who said working from home sounded very relaxing in the beginning, but now they have realized that it is actually more difficult to work from home than the office. Isn’t it different than what we believed earlier?

Being quarantined has also given us more ‘me time’ & has changed the relationship we have with our own self. I am sure it must have taught you how to be comfortable in your own skin & how to love yourself more. Best part of this lockdown was that your social interaction was almost nil. It was you & only you who was keeping yourself busy & maintaining your sanity throughout this lockdown. If you were scared with yourself, awkward & disappointed with your ownself then you seriously have to review your life & your system because you should fall in love with the real self & enjoy your own company like anything.

Let you wake up & try to make the best of this day while hoping for a better tomorrow. Remember that you are still free to design your life & to live it the way you choose. Let you fill all the empty spaces & colour your life as much as possible.

Stay trying. Stay praying. Stay Being awesome. Stay positive. Stay happy. Stay Blessed! 💐💐

I request you to share your valuable feedback & inspiring thoughts in the comments section.

Minimum Efforts That Can Make You Achieve Impossibles.

There’s this popular Chinese proverb that says:

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.”

Obviously it is awesome if you begin doing good for you & your world in your 20s, but you can very well begin now (even in your 30s or 50s) as well. There is no bad time to start. It is always a right time to do the right thing.

Obviously good habits, meaningful routines, healthy lifestyles, priority settings, positive attitudes are good to develop in your childhood. It is simple, I mean sooner you start, the bigger the reward you’ll reap. But you can start now also.

You become more successful, happy, magnificent & satisfied if you embrace these & you will surely become the person you should be, I mean your best version. You will be able to bring more good into your world. If you are in your 30s or 50s & don’t have them yet, develop them now, don’t delay it further.

Remember success, sufficiency & fulfillment in this era comes to you only when you know yourself fully i.e. strengths, weaknesses, passions, values, your interests & how you can perform to your best.

There are all kinds of methods you can use to truly know about yourself. And there are various complicated methods that require special skillsets & character traits that not many are equipped with to find all about yourself. One of that is taking feedback about yourself from your family, friends & others. It is most convenient & common but doesn’t work at all in most cases.

About 15 years back I attended a workshop ‘Hot-Seat’ where you will recieve feedback from the people you belong to. It was very difficult program & one of the best training workshop I ever attended. Because receiving & giving feedback sounds very simple & easy job but every participant there found it extremely difficult at both ends – while giving & receiving. It seriously require high levels of genuineness, integrity, selflessness & self-honesty to give any feedback. It requires guts & excellent listening skills for receiving genuine feedback which not many people have these days.

Therefore it is good if you can research yourself & align yourself according to your own capabilities, interest & time available with you. Simply ask questions & answer yourself. Please spend some quality time doing this sincerely.

Some examples:

I know, like you, not too many people do exercise as ritual everyday. But this habit is most crucial for your long-term wellbeing. It is one keystone ritual that real riches are practicing it consistently. This has an immediate impact on your mood, health & performance.

If you don’t exercise, you don’t have any stable reconstruction process going in your body. You will get sick much easier & your body will become older much faster.

Don’t be scared by the word “exercise.” It doesn’t mean running marathons, lifting weights for hours or spending hours on a treadmill. Exercise is any regular physical activity. Completing extra 10,000 steps each day absolutely qualifies.

Similarly, you can adopt several more simple good habits/ routines/ lifestyles – Praying while you are commuting, doing chin-ups, making to-do lists & checklists, drinking more water, walking more, consuming less sugar, adding more raw vegetables & fruits for natural vitamins & proteins in your diet. Everything will magically change about yourself!

You also need to practice closing your eyes, breathing deeply & focusing your attention on your breathing for some time every day.

Let me remind you once again that with only minimal conscious efforts you can achieve what seemed impossible.

You also desperately need to take control over your thinking processes, actions & reactions.

Let you start biting your tongue instead of saying something ugly without thinking. Let you also stop all the harmful & negative self-talks that have been bringing emotional turmoil to your life always.

You also need to find your purpose & some mechanism or habits to remind you about your purpose on a daily basis.

I advise you to create your personal mission statement & use it in different ways: read it, repeat it in your mind, listen to it, create a vision board based upon it & so on. Do not lose sight of it. Remember that your mission or purposes will only help you in gaining more money, fame, friends, health, time & everything you deserve & want.

Let your mission statement, positive mindset, good deeds, routines & priorities make everything significantly better & increase your productivity, potency & bliss by an order of magnitude.

Stay Amazingly Blessed 💐💐!

Why do you Live?

Why do we go to College? Why do we Work? Why do we have a Family? Why do we get into Social Circles? I mean why do we do anything like this or that?

When I searched for the answer in my circle, there were so many intelligent & stupid replies, but the conclusion was “happiness”. Everyone in their own ways wanted to achieve a state of happiness. I knew it very well that most of us live our lives to experience joy, peace & contentment in our lives. In our own way obviously. That is a well-deserved expectation. But to my surprise, there is a big gap in between what we want & what we do, what we deserve & what we experience & what we should do & choose to do. That is why lively & cheerful behaviours, a feeling of excitement, happiness & knack of being magical seems to be missing from our lives these days.

Let you remind yourself once again today that you deserve not only success but also contentment & joy.

Ask yourself when did you laugh so hard that it hurt your stomach? How often you laugh that way in week, month or year?

Ask yourself why peace & enlightenment is not most valuable & desirable thing in world now even though every holy book, culture & civilization has said so & prescribed achieving these as ultimate things for everyone?

I have seen people with glorified careers, positions & lives who think they have it all, are actually deprived of a calm mind. You confront their thought or question them on the silliest of their deeds & they would emit so much anger, stress & hatred, you won’t believe.

You have this world full of people who wake up every morning with a headache & then again feed their brain, heart & body with more doses of stress, anxiety & illness, in whatever way they can 🤔.

Let you get up, look at the blooming flowers, greenery around you & everything that is constantly radiating colours of joy. Every morning thank God for the soulful breathes travelling in & out of your body so effortlessly. Look at the Sun outside your window who is showering peace (& of course vitamin D 🤣) & feel grateful.

Stay away from everything that inject negativity or depression in you. Stay away from all the elements that make you lose the most valuable & wanted peace, joy & fulfillment. Stop being under the shadow of egotism & expecting applause & standing ovation from everyone around you as preliminary condition to become happy & satisfied.

Surround yourself with positive people. If you do not have the option or flexibility to stay away from the disturbing people, build a strong wall of ignorance & isolate them completely. Behave like a lotus that plunges to life from beneath the mud, but does not allow the dirt that surrounds it to affect its growth or beauty. Let you also continuously try to make everything around you, your environment, surroundings & your world blissful & beautiful with your magic, thoughts, words & actions.

I repeat that you must begin to use everything that shows up in your life, even the most challenging stuff or time, to help you grow, expand & further your ability to broadcast your love, happiness & joy. Don’t let any damn thing suck your soul, liveliness, passions, potential & creativity out of you.

Let you remain to be the one who can laugh until your abs are sore at the smallest joke & a light for your world in the dark moments.

Let the God that you serve bless you & make you victorious in whatever you choose to do. 💐💐

If you are fascinated by this post or have any other thought for me regarding this post, please feel free to contact me using the comment section below, as I would be happy to answer any questions or to have a chat with you 🙏.

YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN STUCK!

YOU HAVE SO MANY OPTIONS! Infact you always had.

But you are continuously telling yourself that I’m stuck in life & I don’t know where to go. How do I get unstuck?

Most likely ( I am sure it is 100%), your feeling of being stuck would relate to a hesitation in making a decision. You do realize there’s a fork in the road ahead & you are uncertain of where to walk. But this is not getting stuck. This is just an illusion darling. You have a choice. You always had 😂.

It is merely your confusion which is created by your own uncertainties, your hesitations, your pool of logics & your habit of doubting your own capabilities & your sources. It doesn’t mean that you are stuck. No, not at all.

You do not see yourself worthy & you have chosen to become exhausted & confused because you have lost connection to your inner world, universe & those Angeles who are always trying to guide you & motivate you.

You are not at all stuck, you can move at anytime. But it is you who is not making a choice.

You hold all the answers within yourself. But you have decided to appear confused, tired & exhausted without even choosing to walk a single step. Let you choose to turn your head to the other side to realize that there is a path ahead that holds no resistance before you.

Let you remind yourself that you are a creator. Creator of your life, if not anything else 😂. And a creator holds all the answers & all the possibilities at fingertips. Look closer & act fast.

In every situation, circumstances or event that take place in your life, you should be sure that your God loves you, no matter what. No matter what you have done, not done, are doing, or will ever do, he loves you unconditionally just as you are, even with all of your stupidity, faults & imperfections.

Let you realign yourself to this certainty, this truth, your soul guidance, real purpose & missions to watch your transformation immediately.

Let you combine all of your thoughts, habits, routines, visualization, words, faith & efforts to go way beyond the way you live to dramatically transform your own life, career & your world.

Stay focused & Keep Moving Toward Your Dreams! 👑👑

No one can blow your nose!

It was just a few weeks ago when everything was absolutely normal.

Now we can only daydream about normalcy.

All I know for sure is that life will surely change, for better or worse, I don’t know.

Please share in what ways this lockdown has been upsetting, terrible & draining for you.

And if somehow this period is proved useful, healthy & productive, then also please share your choices, action ideas & thoughts that have helped you keep positive & courageous mindset through it all.

At the end all I can say is get active now in your own rescue ( if you haven’t until now) & do it while you can. Spread of Corona is not your responsibility but it is your problem. So instead of just worrying, increasing conflicts with the world or arguing with God, accept it, deal with it & get to work solving everything in the best possible manner you can.

Remember no one can blow your nose now & for that matter later. You only can, if you care for yourself. Who knows how much time you have left, or what awaits you tomorrow.. So get to it now.

Remind yourself that being your own man, being self-contained & being optimistic always allow you to thrive in any & all situations.

In last I wish to quote

You never know who’s swimming naked until the tide goes out.


Warren Buffett

Just keep doing what you are good at & never be caught swimming naked! Because the tide will go out again & again. Always keep yourself prepared & save for rainy days.

Stay Blessed & Meaningful! 💐💐

Purpose of your life is same as your ancestors had…

It is truly said that:

The man who acts the least, upbraids the most!

Please stop blaming the world & other good people for your problems, unhappiness & failures. Let you choose to change your perspective, attitude, mindset & take responsibility for your actions, inactions, reactions & your life.

Take a look at the history of humanity which is a consistent struggle with nature & with itself. Our ancestors have had to face countless adversities, sanctified their loved ones & experienced suffering that none of us today can ever imagine living through.

But they always found ways to survive & carry on. They have always found ways to create & improve. They led humanity in the right direction & build this great nation (all others too) with so little means & resources.

And you are the simple recipients of that great nation which was built by your ancestors & been passed to you from generation to generation without any price. Remember that things of your comfort are because of the hard work & sacrifice of people who came before you. You came into this beautiful world & inherited it thanklessly, thinking like selfish monkeys & taking credit for the technology & infrastructure you never had to work for & now you have no idea how to find your way forward.

Think of all the great works of the past, the monuments, wonders, literature, holy books, masterpieces in music & art we own & enjoy to this day is gifted to the human race by those who were going through all the distress, difficulties, illness & impediments you can not imagine. Believe me, you do not have any of such issues in present.

I agree that you are not alone, we are all fighting inner demons & suffering in ways that no one else could understand. It is more or less like these Corona days where everyone is suffering more or less the same level of pain. Leaving apart the real suffering that your friends or family may be going through, there is always a constant battle going in your consciousness.

Perhaps, the most important fight that you must deal with in your life, these days, is within yourself (less in world). Maybe the purpose of your life is to win the inner battle, to defeat the dragon within you, to integrate your shadow into your being, to eradicate the self, the ego, the false persona you have created for yourself & live authentically with courage.

Although you know it very well, what your purpose in life is… Same as your ancestors had… & I repeat – to aim for the highest possible good in your life, to look within & find the things you can change & improve in yourself, to pursue the betterment of yourself & the people around you & society itself. Your purpose in life is to push the boulder up the mountain, even if it means absolutely nothing in the end.

Let you remind yourself to stop looking for the meaning of your life in other dummy things & flimsy delusions. Start looking into yourself, find the life path that is filled with hard work & start running in that direction. Find & pursue what you only dream about doing but are reluctant to admit due to your comfort zone, poor habits, lousy routines & uninspiring lifestyle.

Let your Angeles always protect you in all that you do & bless you with all the success, happiness & fulfilment. 💐💐

What do you think of all this. Please share your thoughts by writing your comments. Let us all do what we can… Blessings..

Your Self-Talk & Stories!

Most of the stories are common. Narrative is common. There is a victim, persecution, hero & villain in every story 🤣. Figure out different words & perspectives in your stories while you are repeating it to yourself & when telling about you to others. Let these be more on your lessons & blessings. Use gentle words & tone. Don’t curse or over criticize yourself & others in your stories 🙏.

Let you stop spreading chaos, unrest, sickness & negativity through your stories. Let you choose to turn every story into positive energies while you are telling these to yourself or others, no matter the content & the perception you had of the events at the time they occurred.

Let your stories re-set strained brains & be able to release stress of every listener. Let these be more funny & larger-than-life stories. Let you stop using your mental toxins such as hatred, obsession, arrogance, envy, greed & pride in your stories. Let your thoughts & stories bring order, harmony, peace, cheerfulness & contentment within you & your world. Stay Blessed & Keep Building Positive Self-Talk & Stories! 💐💐

That’s all for today. Hope you enjoyed the read and thank you for your time. Please share your inputs & feedback in the comments. Let’s keep in touch!

You Deserve To Live The Life You Want!

Whose responsibility do you think it should be to think & do something about your progression, joys, attainments & your satisfaction. Who knows what is best for your mind, for your body & soul?

It is funny but a lot of people live their lives having no clue what they want in their life. What to talk about creating, they even miss so many natural opportunities of being happy, successful & fulfilled by continuously focusing on all that brings you uneasiness, anxiety, annoyance & distress ( everyone is good at it 🤣).

If you don’t know what you really want in life, you’re not alone. So many wander the earth every day without a quest. If someone has not tied you on to something so fiercely that you can’t move an inch or breathe or even can’t think then what can be done 😢. Otherwise in all other cases, I’d like to point out that you have only one life; make the most out of it & do things that make you happy. Motivate yourself to start right now!

Let me tell you that becoming successful & to live the life you want is quite possible & within your reach. It only requires a few simple steps.

Remember that the universe doesn’t reward you for your bullshits & excuses. You don’t just magically attract the things you want in your life, they start appearing to you because you’re doing certain things & activities correctly & maintaining positive vibrations all throughout. I mean that your aspirations don’t just appear, when you become positive & have a real intention, you start spotting all the clues & capturing each opportunity that lead you to your goals, dreams & hopes.

Learn to put a stop to everything that threatens your well-being, blooming & doing well.

Just forget immediately what you did or didn’t do in the past. Start living in the present… & the future from now onwards.

I know it will be very hard for you to figure out what exactly you need & want in your life ultimately. But that’s okay. Try to think about all that you need the most & then what all your wants are. I mean it could be anything, a powerful position, being significant in the world, lot of wealth, travel to world, living simply or luxuriously, becoming the celebrity or just being around the children or Something else? See if you can make a list of priorities. Also think about the kind of legacy you want to leave behind.

Let you also discover what really bothers you at present. Because most of the people soar only by pushing back against something they don’t want. Figure out what upsets you, and be specific about it. Don’t just say that you hate everything about your world. Pinpoint exactly why you hate it. Figure out what bothers you & how can you fix it? How much do you want to fix it?

Let you voice few of your goals out. Because if you tell people what you’re trying to accomplish, they will most likely support you & give you new ideas. Sometimes your family, friends & your social network knows the best tricks.

Truthfully, attaining success & reaching your goals doesn’t have to be that complicated. However, it requires some amount of dedication & hard work. Are you up to the challenge? If so, follow the suggested steps sincerely to make your dreams come true.

I know very well that your present way of living life won’t allow you to get to your ‘ideal life’ anytime soon. But at least, there are some little steps you can take right now, which bring you a little bit closer to where you really want to be. Remember every little step forward is worth taking.

Let you atleast develop your consciousness, change your perceptions & focus, grow your intentions, build some interest & change your attitude to allow your greatness to shine.

Remind yourself that you deserve to have your dreams come true, you deserve to feel more alive & vibrant, you deserve to live the life you want. All that is needed is just your active participation & nothing else.

Let you be on your way to start living an extraordinary life. My best wishes are with you. Blessings 💐💐.

I know it sounds like a repetition. For me – it is just like an alarm clock. A wake up call. A reminder. Please let me know what do you think about it. Share your thoughts in the comments below.