Always keeping your head pointed towards the sun & your feet moving forward shouldn’t make you lose here-&-now!

Even though I am fundamentally an optimist & have always believed that there is a better life, a better world beyond the horizon.., I constantly accept where I am in this moment.

Sweetheart, for sure hope is a powerful force. When you know what you hope for most & hold it like a light within you, you can make things happen, almost like magic. But It doesn’t mean that your hopes & desires should take away what is there now, in this moment. Remember – Now is all you really have 🤭.

Living in the present is not just a overused popular Google phrase—it’s a recognized & evidence-backed lifestyle that not only help you to make everything in your world a bit more meaningful, beautiful & better, but also help you live peacefully with yourself & all others.

Darling listen – for me & some others, being in the present moment, or the “here & now,” means that you are fully engaged with your life, honoring who you are, what you look like now, how you feel & exerting your best efforts at this moment 🙏.

Sweetheart, it also means that you are mindful of what is happening at this very moment. You are not distracted by ruminations of the past or worries about the future, but centered in the here & now. All of our attention is focused on the present moment.

I wish & hope that all your present moments are full of love, energy, excitement & fervor for your life & world. Let you continuously create more joy & cheers within & for everyone around. Tons of Blessings 💐

Let you follow “One fool under one roof is enough” rule & practice letting go!

I don’t know about you, but when you ask people to look inside their mind & ask what they saw or found – the answer on average was – rubbish or garbage!

Just to make it clear, I am talking about negative & hurtful memories, bitterness, resentments, grudges or regret from the past & those collected or accumulated negative thoughts & stray desires that are utterly unworthy. You may be totally unaware of these.

I am also talking about that trash which often gets left behind week after week, year after year & sometimes even lifetime after lifetime. It is the trash that you have not been able to get rid of…

Darling listen – just like the trash in a dustbin, if not cleared leads to rotting stenches, unwelcome pests & the formation of hazardous bacteria……, the garbage in your mind or heart also tends to grow, stink & pollute the whole environment.

Sweetheart, negativity, foulness, rubbish & filthy thoughts inside us grow till they impel us to filthy actions that only make things worse, sometimes horrifyingly worse for us & everyone around us.

If you don’t want to increase the inefficiency, ineffectiveness & mess in your life, start minimizing the quantity of garbage in your heart & mind. Just as a bin that is cleaned regularly remains usable, so too a heart or mind that is cleaned regularly remains usable, instead of becoming useless or even harmful. Keep your bins cleaned 🙏.

How do we take out the trash that has encumbered your heart or mind for years?

There are two popular methods of maintaining a clean & tidy mind or heart. The first is not to allow any new rubbish to pile up & the second is to work hard at scrubbing away all the smut that has already accumulated. So simple 🤣.

Sweetheart, the solution is – choose consciously what you take in, what you dwell on & what you turn away from. I also want you to stop reacting unnecessarily, follow “One fool under one roof is enough” rule & let go. Practicing these regularly will bring clarity, peace & balance in life.

I know that there is no doubt the previous events you faced were definitely hurtful, they are now in the past. The pain we feel in the present is often self-created – you only add to your own misery by feeling sorry for yourself & replaying certain events in your hearts over & over again. By doing this, you keep your pain fresh & alive.

You need to quickly get rid of your fouler trash if you want to become more productive, happy & healthy. There is no choice!

I wish & hope that you make it a daily task to take out the trash & keep your heart & mind clean. Tons of Good Wishes & Blessings 💐

Don’t let your “later” become “never” & “maybe” a complete “no”.

I wish you to know that the moment you decide to stop making excuses for yourself, most of the ways & means to solve the unsolved, finish the unfinished, reach beyond yourself & turn your dreams into reality become apparent.

As much as we hate to admit it, we have all made excuses before & some of us still continue to do so every now & then. Whether it’s to get out of things we don’t feel like doing, trying something new or simply because we refuse to step out of our comfort zone. We choose to take the easy way out, by making excuses.

You need to understand that the more you use excuses, the harder it will be to get things done. They become your new reality 🤭.

Darling listen – don’t let your “later” become “never” & “maybe” a “no”. Stop relying on excuses to get you somewhere in life, because they won’t. They are just keeping you away from your own happiness, true potential & your best version.

If you want to be the best you can be, achieve happiness in your life & feel good with yourself, you need to stop with the excuses & start doing your things instead. No matter how difficult they might seem at the moment, some things need to be done before it’s too late 🙏.

Sweetheart, press on (& continue), even when you don’t want & believe me, before you know it, you’ll be punching all your excuses in the face & evolving into the best version of yourself. Go on, you got this!

I wish & hope that from today, you begin to make progress to get ahead, instead of excuses to stay behind. Let you find grace in doing the right thing at the right time & in the right way to achieve all that you want.

My best wishes & blessings are always with you 💐

I wish you the end of your “wax on, wax off” cycle…

At the beginning of this new week, I wholeheartedly wish the end of your “wax on, wax off” cycle. Let you come out from the narrow scopes of life to the field of endless possibilities.

Darling listen – Infinite possibilities exist in the unknown. Let you be willing to break with the known & seek your breakthroughs in the unknown… The unknown is inviting you & Me… 🤭.

You can be what you wish to be. Remember, you have limitless potential & so many inborn gifts. What are you going to do with your potential & your natural talents, use it or abuse it or waste it, is all up to you.

I am cheering you on for this week, hoping that it will be a wondrous one. Let this week be a week of happiness for you, me & everyone. Let you attract some divine favours this week & let your loving heart get what it craves.

Stay healthy, happy & filled with love 💐

रविवारीय प्रार्थना – परमात्मा से क्या चीज मांगी जाए और परमात्मा हमें क्या वस्तु दे सकते हैं, इस बात की समझ बनाये रखना।

आज एक बार दुबारा मेरा वही सवाल है कि अगर आपकी प्रार्थना से प्रसन्न हो कर परमात्मा कल आपके सामने प्रकट हो जाये और कहे कि मांगो क्या मांगते हो, तो आप क्या मांगने वाले हो?

मेरे अनुसार तो आप ये कहने वाले हैं कि प्रभु दो और दो का चार तो बहुत हो चुका, अब इस दो और दो को पांच बना दो। या फिर शायद आप कुछ शिकायतें करेंगे, अपने असंतोष को प्रकट करेंगे। और आप को आता ही क्या है। ये इतना हास्यपद हो सकता है कि इसका वर्णन नही किया जा सकता है 🤭।

९९% लोग प्रार्थना करने का अर्थ याचना अर्थात् मांगना मानते हैं मगर परमात्मा से क्या चीज मांगी जाए और  परमात्मा हमें क्या वस्तु दे सकते हैं, इस बात को नही समझते हैं।

आज का ये लेख मुख्य रूप से इसी बारे मे है।

हे परमपिता परमात्मा, आप कृपा करके मेरे मन, आत्मा, शरीर, अंतःकरण, बुद्धि से सभी अहंकार, अज्ञान, अविद्या, अविवेक एवं अभाव दूर कर दीजिए। ईर्ष्या, द्वेष, लोभ, मोह, क्रोध आदि दुर्गुण दूर कर दीजिए। आप ऐसी कृपा करें कि मैं सदैव आपके चरणों में रहूं, आपकी कृपा का पात्र बना रहूँ और आपसे मैं कभी दूर ना जाऊं।

कुछ अन्य याचनाएँ या मांग इस प्रकार हो सकती हैं:

  • हे नाथ, आपकी कथाओं और लीलाओं का गान करने में मुझे सदा ही रस प्राप्त हो। अंतिम दिन और अंतिम क्षणों तक मेरे रोम रोम से आपके नाम का जप होता रहे। ये उत्साह और ऊर्जा सदा बनी रहे।
  • कभी कोई ढोंग या पाखण्ड करने का मन हो आये तो भी केवल आपकी भक्ति का ही ढोंग पाखण्ड हो मुझ से।
  • अपने साथ साथ सृष्टि के सभी प्राणियों में भी आप की परम-सत्ता के अंश सदा दिखते रहें। आपके द्वारा बनाई गई इस सृष्टि की विशालता के सामने मुझे मेरी स्थिति का एहसास सदा बना रहता है।
  • हे मेरे स्वामी, मैं कभी गलत काम ना ना करूं। सदैव अच्छे काम करूं। दूसरों की भलाई करूं। मेरी किसी से कोई शत्रुता न हो। सभी प्राणी मेरे मित्र हों।
  • मेरी नाराजगी, लालच, ईष्र्या, मेरा अहंकार और मेरे सभी पूर्वाग्रहों तुरन्त प्रभाव से खत्म हो जायें। भ्रम-भय, दैन्य-संशय, अल्पता-अभाव आदि समस्त मानवीय दुर्बलताओं का तुरन्त अंत हो जाये।
  • मेरे शरीर के अंदर, मेरे मन के अंदर तथा मेरी आत्मा के अंदर किसी प्रकार की व्याधि, रोग, दुःख-दर्द ना हो, कोई पीड़ा कष्ट ना रहे। कोई संकट विपत्ति कभी ना आए।
  • हे नाथ, अगर मेरे मेरे पूर्व जन्म के कर्मों की वजह से अगर मेरे ऊपर कोई संकट या विपत्ति आये भी तो मैं धैर्य को धारण करूं और विवेक को कदापि ना खोऊं।
  • हे नाथ, प्रतिकूल से प्रतिकूल परिस्थिति में भी आपके मंगलमय विधान को देख कर मन मे संतोष बना रहे तथा जीवन के हर आयाम को पूरी जीवंतता के साथ जीता रहूँ।
  • हे नाथ, मैं कभी कोई पाप न करूँ.. न होता देखूं.. न सुनू.. और न ही कभी किसी के पाप का बखान करूँ।
  • दूसरों को सदैव सुख ही दिया करूँ। दूसरे की कभी हानि ना करूं और न ही किसी के अहित का कभी भी सोचूं।
  • हे नाथ, मेरे मन, कर्म और वचन से.. कभी किसी को भी थोड़ा सा भी दुःख न पहुँचे… यह कृपा बनाये रखना।
  • हे प्रभु, अगर कभी किसी कारणवश, अज्ञानतावश मेरे वचन, कृत्य या किसी दूसरे कारण से किसी को दुःख पहुँचे… तो जानकारी होते ही, मैं उसी समय उससे हाथ जोड़कर क्षमा माँग लूँ और वे मुझे क्षमा कर दें।
  • हे प्रभु ! मेरा सभी कार्य, व्यवहार एवं आचरण वेदानुकूल हों। मैं वेद विरुद्ध कोई भी कर्म एक भी पल के लिए ना करुं। कभी पथ-भ्रष्ट न होने देना।
  • मेरे तन, मन और स्थितियों को इस लायक बनाये रखना की अंत समय तक सेवा करने के लिये दान पुण्य करने के लायक बना रहूँ। मेरे पांवो में इतनी शक्ति आखिरी सांस तक बनाये रखना की जंहा भी आपकी प्रशंसा हो आपके नाम की चर्च हो वँहा पहुंच सकूँ।
  • मैं हर किसी वस्तु को, रिश्तों को, मित्रों को और अपने जीवन को आपकी अनुकम्पा मानूँ और उसका आभार मानूँ, मेरे द्वारा किये हुए हर कार्य का आपको ही कर्ता मानूँ। सदा ही आपकी कृपा के लिये आपके सामने मेरा सर श्रद्धा से प्रेम से झुका रहे।
  • हे मेरे प्रभो, प्रत्येक परिस्थिति में मुझे आपके दर्शन प्राप्त हों..।।

मेरे हिसाब से जो परमात्मा सम्पूर्णता-श्रेष्ठता और दिव्यता का मूल स्रोत है, उस परिपूर्ण अखण्ड-आनन्द निर्विशेष परमात्मा से उसके साथ एकरूपता एवं अटूटपन के अलावा कुछ भी मांगना मूर्खता होगी।

इन दिनों जैसे आपकी सोच, विचार और कृत्य बिगड़ गए हैं वैसे ही प्रार्थना भी दूषित और कलुषित हो गई है। इन सब को शुद्ध करना है। परमात्मा है या नहीं, कंहा है कहाँ नही यह मत पूछो। प्रार्थना को शुद्ध करो। जिस दिन प्रार्थना शुद्ध हो जाती है, उस दिन तुम जान जाते हो की न केवल परमात्मा है, बल्कि बस परमात्मा ही है, और कुछ भी नहीं। उस दिन हर दिशा से उसी का संदेश आने लगते हैं और परमात्मा सब तरफ दिखाई पड़ने लगता है। उसी दिन आप बुद्ध हो जाते हैं।

आज अपने आराध्य प्रभु से प्रार्थना करता हूँ की वे आपकी प्रार्थनाएं स्वीकार करें। आपकी आध्यात्मिक सोच व जीवनशैली आपकी आत्मिक, नैतिक, आर्थिक और आपके कलात्मक उत्थान तथा जीवन उत्कर्ष का आधार बने और आपकी श्रेष्ठता, पवित्रता, शुभता और आपके-जीवन में निहित भगवत्ता जल्द ही उद्घाटित हो।

आपके विचार, कृत्यों, प्रार्थनाओं और जीवन में तालमेल बना रहे, सामंजस्य तथा समन्वय बना रहे इसी कामना के साथ आज मैं प्रभु जी से ये भी प्रार्थना करता हूँ कि आप सदा सरल, सकारात्मक, सार्थक और स्वस्थ बने रहें।

श्री रामाय नमः। श्री राम दूताय नम:। ॐ हं हनुमते नमः।।

Don’t take anyone for granted!!

Today, I wish you to know that you are so wrapped up in your daily hustle & bustle that you take most of the great stuff for granted, especially those godly people who matter the most.

Today I am talking about all those people you rely upon, who support you, who you have a bond with, who would give their lives for you, who love you unconditionally. I am talking about those who have been ignoring & forgiving you for all your nonsense. I am talking about those people who have you in their future plans, when they think forward into their own futures. Believe me, it’s an amazing privilege & honor to have even one such person in your world. You are so blessed to have many such people.

I am sure you know most of them very well & you also know that you take them for granted. If you don’t learn to value what these people do for you everyday, you might end up losing them, sooner or later.

Darling listen – every day someone does something for you that you take for granted. We all do it probably. It’s time to stop taking your people for granted.

Sweetheart, begin recognising & appreciating these good people in your life. Please acknowledge the support & resource they are for you. Salute their value addition in your daily life, whenever you can.

Show these people that you love them & that they mean more to you than some gains or losses. Show them you care. Go one extra mile to help these people.  Anyway, whatever you do, don’t take your people who respect & love you for granted.

Let me remind you that whatever you make, do, create or build is a vehicle to create meaningful connections with others. Please check if you are intentional about making genuine & lasting connections with people? What are Because in the end, it’s your people that matter most. Believe me!

This weekend, I want you to practice remembering & spelling out your gratitude for them.

Tons of Good Wishes & Blessings 🍻

Seeming to do is not doing..

I am sure you will agree that everyone is so busy these days. However, I & few others are exceptional. We are free most of the time 🤣.

There are two types of busyness – first, who are genuinely busy doing something that’s so important to them. If you are genuinely pursuing what you wish to accomplish, then you willl be happy, energetic & enthusiastic. You & everyone around will feel it.

Second type is fake busyness which is basically being busy doing nothing. These dumb people feel sick, burnt out & tired most of the time.

Darling listen – Seeming to do is not doing..

Sweetheart, ask yourself today, why are you so busy & more importantly what are you busy doing 🤣?

Being busy does not always mean doing something in the real sense. The object of doing something in real means – production or accomplishment. Doing Something means – doing something meaningful In each moment.

I repeat – pursuing & doing something meaningful means doing things that will make a positive difference in your life or in your world.

Sweetheart, believe me, mostly you are
burnt out, drained & tired not because you have done too much, but because you have done too little of what makes you come alive 🤭. Getting home after a long day of work & asking “what did I even do?” is the main reason for your bad feelings (most of them 🤣).

There’s nothing worse than Fake Busyness. Because it robs us of our core purpose. Instead of making progress on meaningful work, we end up running around with little to show at the end of the day.

Sweetheart, from today onwards, give yourself a badge of being busy only if you are efficiently effective…

I wish & hope that your life will be loaded up with bliss & that you become effective & efficient in whatever you do ✌️.

Be such a beautiful soul that people crave your vibes…

I wish you to be a beautiful Soul that people crave your vibes. I want you to be someone who people want to run up to & hug, each time when they see you.

To me, a beautiful soul means three things in general. First – beauty & goodness in your appearance, manners, behaviour, bearing, expressions, speech & presence in overall. Second – being attuned to beauty, I mean always in appreciation & propagation of beauty & goodness. Third is having achieved some kind of balance & harmony in life.

Sweetheart, please understand that your nose, eyes, lips may be beautiful, but they all need to ‘fit together’ if the face as a whole is to be a beautiful one. Same goes
with a beautiful soul. If you miss patience, cohesion, form, grace, integrity, honesty & wildly react to situations & things, then you cannot be called a beautiful soul even if you do all the things that are written in books to be a religious or good person.

Darling listen – I also treat myself & all others as a beautiful soul who are rooting for you selflessly, encourage you to do better, inspire you to release your fat & relentless ego & breath love into yourself every single day. Today once again, I want you to be the type of energy that no matter where you go, or where you are, you add value to the spaces & lives of those around you..

Stay being Good, Beautiful, Loving, Smart, Talented, Funny, Godly & more than anyone could ask for! Run your Race harmoniously, pleasingly & graciously 💐

Have you actualized yourself in real sense?

In my opinion we all carry within us different versions of ourselves.

Darling listen – Greatest version of ourselves can either be developed & nourished or it can remain dead from our neglect.

But most people like you opt for the easiest version rather than the best 🤭.

Afterall, which version lives, which version thrives & which version dies, depends on the choices you make, what you do, what you don’t do & where you focus your mind. It all depends on you alone.

Sweetheart if you want more flow, abundance, peace of mind, clarity & joy in your life, it’s time to start spending your every minute to build up your body, affluence & influence.

You can’t afford chilling out the whole day due to your pent-up frustration or self defeating habits. You’ll have plenty of time to chill out once you actualize yourself.

I wish & hope that you, very soon, grow yourself into your happiest, strongest & wisest self.

Good luck & Tons on Blessings 💐

Remember — it’s not about how you start, but about how you finish!

I know it is too early to think of the year end. But I just thought to remind you that there is still time before the new year to tie up the loose ends, finish what you started, complete the pending work & accomplish something.

Sweetheart, whether 2022 was a year of growth for you or a year that taught you some important lessons, it’s finally coming to end in less than 2 months. If you spare a few minutes on taking stock of your affairs now, it will really help you to enter in New Year with better energy & hopes.

Darling listen – knowing where you’ve been at beginning of this year, where you’re at, where you want to go & doing what is needed before it’s late is a perfect way to set yourself up for grand success in 2023.

Sweetheart, when you pack your bags for New Year “take what resonates & leave what doesn’t”. I mean – brainstorm on what’s been working for you, what is not, what is giving you all those good feelings & what is making you feel bad. Think of what you need to maintain or expand in next year – or get rid of, if you can. Think of what you will like to start, stop & continue next year. Accordingly, take action right now.

Also mentally scan your soul, heart, mind & yourself from head to toe, Notice anything that feels tired, weak or achey. Notice if something in you is hurt, unhappy & frustrated. Notice those things, thoughts, feelings or deeds that you are not so proud of. Also notice everything that you are so proud of, your greatest accomplishments, your achievements & happy moments. Believe me, you will thank me later for this small exercise.

We’re going to need to be our best selves in 2023. I don’t know why, but I have a feeling 2023 is going to outdo 2022 – in more ways than you & I can even imagine.

That’s why, I will recommend you to Aim high & prepare yourself. The list I compiled is the minimum you can do for yourself in November & December. 

Before I recommend you to do something, I’d want you to get rid of some of the unhealthy habits & behavior that are holding you back & stopping you from your greatness. Some of your daily rituals & activities are exactly what water is to fire. Get rid of the:

  • “I’ll do it tomorrow” mentality. Let go of laziness. Let go of avoidance.
  • Let go of the lies you tell yourself.
  • Let go of your anger & resentments.
  • Let go of poor business ethics & practices.
  • Let go of anxious thinking.
  • Let go of thoughts of superiority.
  • Let go of putting everyone else ahead of you.
  • Let go of the sloppy (excessively casual) look.
  • Let go of thinking you need things that you don’t.
  • Let go of believing that happiness is anywhere but within you.

You can quickly do following before this year comes to an end.

  • Start working out everyday & loose 10 KG. Prioritise your health.
  • Start something significant & begin using your time wisely. Increase your value & numbers.
  • Upgrade your wardrobe.
  • Join a Gym, Club & start networking.
  • Start a new ritual or routine.
  • Form a new positive habit.

Remember — it’s not about how you start, but about how you finish.

Sweetheart, before your TV announces the end of 2022, make sure to do something to make yourself feel better & accomplished. You have enough time.

I pray for you from the bottom of my heart that before 2022 comes to an end, all your heart’s desires be granted & all your prayers be heard. Let the year end in joy for you & for your world. Tons of Blessings 💐