“यदि जीवन के 50 वर्ष पार कर लिए है तो अब लौटने की तैयारी प्रारंभ करें….इससे पहले की देर हो जाये… इससे पहले की सब किया धरा निरर्थक हो जाये…..”✍️
लौटना क्यों है❓
लौटना कहाँ है❓
लौटना कैसे है❓
इसे जानने, समझने एवं लौटने का निर्णय लेने के लिए आइये टॉलस्टाय की मशहूर कहानी आज आपके साथ साझा करता हूँ :
“लौटना कभी आसान नहीं होता“
एक आदमी राजा के पास गया कि वो बहुत गरीब था, उसके पास कुछ भी नहीं, उसे मदद चाहिए…
राजा दयालु था..उसने पूछा कि “क्या मदद चाहिए..?”
आदमी ने कहा..”थोड़ा-सा भूखंड..”
राजा ने कहा, “कल सुबह सूर्योदय के समय तुम यहां आना..ज़मीन पर तुम दौड़ना जितनी दूर तक दौड़ पाओगे वो पूरा भूखंड तुम्हारा। परंतु ध्यान रहे,जहां से तुम दौड़ना शुरू करोगे, सूर्यास्त तक तुम्हें वहीं लौट आना होगा,अन्यथा कुछ नहीं मिलेगा…!”
आदमी खुश हो गया…
सूर्योदय के साथ आदमी दौड़ने लगा…
आदमी दौड़ता रहा.. दौड़ता रहा.. सूरज सिर पर चढ़ आया था..पर आदमी का दौड़ना नहीं रुका था..वो हांफ रहा था,पर रुका नहीं था…थोड़ा और..एक बार की मेहनत है..फिर पूरी ज़िंदगी आराम…
शाम होने लगी थी…आदमी को याद आया, लौटना भी है, नहीं तो फिर कुछ नहीं मिलेगा…
उसने देखा, वो काफी दूर चला आया था.. अब उसे लौटना था..पर कैसे लौटता..? सूरज पश्चिम की ओर मुड़ चुका था.. आदमी ने पूरा दम लगाया —
वो लौट सकता था… पर समय तेजी से बीत रहा था..थोड़ी ताकत और लगानी होगी…वो पूरी गति से दौड़ने लगा…पर अब दौड़ा नहीं जा रहा था..वो थक कर गिर गया… उसके प्राण वहीं निकल गए…!
राजा यह सब देख रहा था…
अपने सहयोगियों के साथ वो वहां गया, जहां आदमी ज़मीन पर गिरा था…
राजा ने उसे गौर से देखा..
फिर सिर्फ़ इतना कहा…
“इसे सिर्फ दो गज़ ज़मीं की दरकार थी…नाहक ही ये इतना दौड़ रहा था…! “
आदमी को लौटना था… पर लौट नहीं पाया…
वो लौट गया वहां, जहां से कोई लौट कर नहीं आता…
अब ज़रा उस आदमी की जगह अपने आपको रख कर कल्पना करें, कही हम भी तो वही भारी भूल नही कर रहे जो उसने की
हमें अपनी चाहतों की सीमा का पता नहीं होता…
हमारी ज़रूरतें तो सीमित होती हैं, पर चाहतें अनंत..
अपनी चाहतों के मोह में हम लौटने की तैयारी ही नहीं करते…जब करते हैं तो बहुत देर हो चुकी होती है…
फिर हमारे पास कुछ भी नहीं बचता…
अतः आज अपनी डायरी पैन उठाये कुछ प्रश्न एवं उनके उत्तर अनिवार्य रूप से लिखें ओर उनके जवाब भी लिखें
– मैं जीवन की दौड़ में सम्मिलित हुआ था, आज तक कहाँ पहुँचा?
– आखिर मुझे जाना कहाँ है ओर कब तक पहुँचना है?
– इसी तरह दौड़ता रहा तो कहाँ ओर कब तक पहुँच पाऊंगा?
हम सभी दौड़ रहे हैं… बिना ये समझे कि सूरज समय पर लौट जाता है…
अभिमन्यु भी लौटना नहीं जानता था…हम सब अभिमन्यु ही हैं..हम भी लौटना नहीं जानते…
सच ये है कि “जो लौटना जानते हैं, वही जीना भी जानते हैं…पर लौटना इतना भी आसान नहीं होता…”
काश टॉलस्टाय की कहानी का वो पात्र समय से लौट पाता…!
“मै ईश्वर से प्रार्थना करता हूँ कि हम सब लौट पाएं..! लौटने का विवेक, सामर्थ्य एवं निर्णय हम सबको मिले…. सबका मंगल होय….”✍️
I know for sure that everyday you encounter with people, events & TV shows who suck all the positive energy out of you & fuel their relentless hunger for negativity & resentments, leaving you drained, exhausted, hopeless & unhappy.
It may be a habit or a source of bread & butter for some to spread hatred, negativity, ill feelings, conflict & drama, but why you have to enjoy it all the time & allow these energy suckers to wreak havoc on your life & world unnecessarily. 🤔
Whatever the case, I request you to minimize your exposure to negativity in your life. Unknowingly it is affecting your mindset, health & success badly. It is also affecting your natural intelligence & ability to think & produce. It is also affecting your relationships & your world badly.
Stop all the pointless, frustrating & depleting activities immediately & start choosing your battles carefully.
Let me remind you that it’s never too late to make alterations in your lifestyle, habits & routines. Start addressing & understanding the things that are controlling major part of your life. Stay focused only on the good & positive things in your life & world.
By eliminating all the self-sabotaging habits you can begin to do things that are most important to you, eat well, exercise, learn, keep in touch with your family & friends more & work to your fullest potential. Believe me a minor change can help you to have a full, healthy & successful life.
My best wishes & blessings are with you always 💐💐
Let me remind you that you are absolutely limitless, strong, flexible & capable of making the most out of any situation. I know you can very well grow as a person even when it’s not that easy.
You know this but just thought to remind you – you can have all the success when you are ON all the time. The word “BEING PROACTIVE” is the golden word or synonym for the success. Instead of being reactive all the time, let you choose high speed action all day long, thinking ahead & reaching out faster to achieve all the success, joy & growth in life. 👑
Let you set your intentions, align your thoughts & attitude, decide what’s next for you, determine who you want to become, what kind of life you want to live from today & how you wish to show up in the world. That’s it.
Remember setting SMART Goals are not enough – setting daily intentions will change your life.
Let this be your wake-up call to Reset, Readjust, Restore & Refocus. It’s high time to allow overthinking, doubts, confusions & anxiety to exit your mind & attract abundance in life.
Stay Being Intentional, Committed & Focused on things that are important to you 🛩️
Let it be the time to start receiving what you have been praying for – your blessings 💐💐.
Like everyone else, you too have incredible capacity to realize your potential, to feel confident, joyful, fulfilled & achieve your dreams… any dream. 👑👑
But I guarantee you that you haven’t utilized a fraction of your true potential so far. 🤔
The truth is no one can realize their full potential. Because your potential keeps growing as you increase your abilities. Remember you do not have a fixed limit to the capacities you can develop.
It will surely look funny to you at this point of time, but you can ask any successful person, entertainer, sports person or your favourite celebrity, they all will say that even though they have already achieved much more than they ever expected to achieve when they started, they can still see plenty of ways they can continue to grow & improve at what they are doing. 🥂
Stop preventing yourself from achieving what you easily can & stop settling for a mediocre life unnecessarily. Stop ignoring your greatness, potential, inborn talent & your present blessedness. Please 🙏.
Let me remind you that one of the most important thing for you to know for becoming what you deserve to be & about realising your true potential is DOING. Doing the thing you want to improve at or achieve. You start doing it & then you work to improve how you are doing it. It’s simple! ✌️
Just thinking about doing does not realise potential at all. Without doing, there is no accomplishment. 😷
Begin Doing something meaningful from today is in your full reach. You can easily begin Doing. Start upgrading yourself. Start telling yourself that you deserve more & that you want better for yourself & your world. Motivate & encourage yourself to take a step in the right direction.
I sincerely wish if you can help yourself today to reach & unlock your untapped potential.
Let some coincidence or surprise or for that matter this article work as a signal from God & propel you forward into your vision, fire up your spirit & ignite your passion so that you can become your best version, more useful, honorable & become capable of making some kind of positive impact on billions of lives in an unimaginable way. Blessings 💐💐
आपको देर सबेर ये मानना ही होगा कि भगवान यदि यहाँ नहीं है तो कहीं भी नहीं हैं और भगवान अगर आपके आज में नहीं है तो भविष्य में भी कभी नहीं होंगे।
आप के अंदर और सभी के अंदर भगवान् नित्य ही विराजित है। उनका असिमित ज्ञान, अंनत प्रेम, आनंद, उनकी अथाह शक्ति एवं दिव्य गुण आपके भीतर शुरू से ही मौजूद हैं। आपके भीतर उनकी नियामतों का भंडार भरा हुआ है। आपका ये बहुमूल्य खज़ाना आपका इंतज़ार कर रहा है। इसकी खोज करना, इसका विकास करना, इसको अभिव्यक्त करने का निरंतर प्रयास करना ही प्रार्थना है।
अपने आलस्य, अस्तव्यस्तता, अवसाद, उपेक्षा और उत्साहीनता को खत्म करते हुऐ साधारण से असाधारण बनना यानी के नर से नारायण बनने के आपके सतत प्रयास को ही प्रार्थना कहते हैं।
प्रार्थना का एक मतलब ये भी ये भी है कि खुद को बार बार ये याद दिलाया जाये कि आपका उद्देश्य जीवन खत्म होने के बाद बैकुण्ठ जाना नहीं है परंतु अपने प्रयासों द्वारा इसी जीवन में बैकुण्ठ का माधुर्य पैदा करना है।
आपके घर-आंगन और संसार में आनंद, प्रेम, सद्भावना, हर्षोल्लास एवं हँसी-ठिठोली बनी रहे तथा आपके जीवन में खुशियों का और आपके अपनो का साथ सदैव बना रहे, ऐसी प्रभु के श्री चरणों मे आज प्रार्थना है। मंगल शुभकामनाएं 💐💐
There are high chances that you are influenced by your surroundings, environment, situations & people around you. At the same time your world & surroundings are also consistently in serious risk to be influenced by your thoughts, actions & reactions.
Let me remind you that we all send energy into the world & receive energy back. We all are composed of energy, which vibrates out routinely & is felt by everything & everyone around us.
This is why we feel warm, calm, cheerful, inspired & motivated in some places & feel cold, anxious, blue, drained & discouraged at some places & around some people.
Evidently, good thoughts, good deeds & good energy can boost anyone’s feelings of well-being, can dissolve feelings of anxiety & improve communication. Negative thoughts, selfishness, arrogant behavior & bad energy will obviously result in feelings of discord, conflict & increase resentment in environment & surrounding.
Positivity comes naturally for some of us. But if it’s not your natural state of mind, don’t worry, it is possible to learn how to maintain a positive outlook, how to have optimistic thoughts, how to remain in happy & pumped up mood, how to feel good & emit more positive energy, no matter what. Believe me, if you begin to emit positivity, you will feel good, your world will feel better & your situations will improve.
If you remain grounded, gentle, rooted & emit positivity despite growing up in a society that isn’t, you will have more fun, have more opportunities & can open all sorts of doors in life. I mean, just think about it – Who is more successful? Who gets the real jobs done faster? Who seems to have all the luck? Most Likely – Positive & Blissful People.
If you continuously emit negativity, it’s just no fun for you, for your loved ones & for anyone else you interact with. If you don’t believe, ask few of them… 😂
While sending you all the positive vibes, I wish your today & everyday be filled with happiness, peace of mind, self-confidence, personal growth & love. Blessings 💐
If you constantly make excuses that you aren’t this enough, that enough, don’t have enough time, don’t have enough resources & therefore can’t follow your bliss & dreams, you are only sabotaging your greater self, your future & your destiny.
Sorry to disappoint you, but if you are praying, hoping & wishing that someone will miraculously appear to take you where you wish to go – is not going to happen. Not at all.
But what if I tell you that you have the ability to succeed at whatever you set your mind & will to accomplish? 🤔
Would you believe me if I told you that
you’re more powerful, competent & gifted than you think? Will you belive if I tell you that you also have some amazing superpowers which are to be unlocked? 🤔
Yes, you have a very special gift, that when used at the peak of its potential can transform your life & will undeniably make your life & world a better place.
I wish to remind you once again that you have something within you that separates you from the rest of the world & that is your greatness. But you have to work hard to unlock the door to your potential, your beauty, your courage, your passions, your drive, your determination, your hunger, your grit, your perseverance & your greatness.
You have to start to develop your real-self, start to reprogramme your mind & don’t just settle for the so-called average life.
Let you stop playing small from today. Allow yourself to be all that you are here to be & step up your game in order to take your life to a new level. Let me remind you that you deserve to be the fullest expression of your beautiful, authentic & divine self. 👑
It is you who hold yourself back from going after what you truly want & deserve. No one else. You paralyzes yourself by avoiding necessary efforts. Once you break down your inner mental barriers that have imprisoned you for so many years, you will start living life differently, your perspective will change, your actions will be focused, your plans will be meaningful, you will have better routine & all your limits & fears will disappear.
Let you begin to trust yourself, create the kind of self that you & your world will be really proud of. Let you make the most of yourself & start taking inspired action every single damn day. 🙏
My best wishes & blessings are always with you. 💐💐
I am sure everyone wants to be peaceful, healthy, happy, successful, fulfilled, safe, loved & recognised, but not too many wants to put the required efforts consistently. When you are simply going through the flow & doing the absolute minimum, you don’t have the right to be upset if you don’t achieve what you want or deserve in life.
Today I am talking about those who work day in & day out to not only improve themselves, but to improve others around them. I am talking about those who stay focused on managing their own thoughts, feelings & behaviours instead of expecting & compelling others to think & behave in their own way. I am talking about those who always work hard to keep their immediate circle, surroundings & environment cheerful, pleasing, encouraging & divine.
I wish to remind you about couple of things that you must try (Stop & Start) if you really want to live a fulfilling life.
I could list a thousand more things here about how to achieve what you desire in life but if you’re not willing to do the work, nothing will happen.
Once again let me remind you that you owe it to yourself to become the best version of yourself, accomplish your biggest dreams & create the life you want. Get started & take the necessary action today! Blessings & Best Wishes 💐💐
Today I wish if you can make the choice to go only with what works best for your life, for the lives around you & for your world. You already know what it is that is good for you, what you must do & what pushes you in a positive, flourishing & fulfilling direction.
You very well know what’s holding you back from success you actually deserve & pushing all your goodness, enthusiasm, exhilaration & possibilities away. Make the conscious decision to move away, as quickly as possible, from all those meaningless things & what is not working for you.
Remember, it is absolutely essential to use all the time, attention & energy only on what works for you, if you want to be really happy, healthy, fulfilled & succeed in your life.
Let you remind yourself once again that you can not live at anything less than your highest level & that you have to go only with what works & what is best for you.
Believe me, every small change in your thought process, habits, routines & lifestyle will bring more rewards than you can imagine. Keep Trying & Stay Focused! Blessings 💐
I am sure like me, you also see so many people who appear to be busy all day long but seem to accomplish very little. This is almost always because you will find them busy working on tasks that are of low value & obviously avoiding the one or two activities that could make a real difference to their careers, relationships & life.
I wish to remind you that if you will check your daily, weekly or monthly activities, only two out of ten items will be worth more than the other eight items put together. It also means 80% of your results come from 20% of your efforts. The fact is most of the people keep busy doing these 80% things that are not contributing too much in their lives & ignoring the 20% which can bring them the desired results & has the potential to accelerate their success, growth, happiness & well-being.
All I am saying is – let you continue enjoy doing whatever you are doing – important or less important around-the-clock but
identify & do at least two activities (20%) that has the potential to close the gap between you & what you want to be the most.
If it’s your job to eat a frog, it’s best to do it first thing in the morning. And If it’s your job to eat two frogs, it’s best to eat the biggest one first.Mark Twain
Once again, always keep in mind that the majority of your results will come from a minority of your actions, so figure out what actions you can do MORE of to see bigger results in the areas you want to. It’s up to you!
It’s Simple & I repeat – try spending atleast your 20% of time in doing those essential activities that can help you in achieving the life you deserve.
I wish you Good Luck for the day & hope this day bring to you all the things that make you smile & inspire you to be the best version of yourself! Blessings 💐