Bloom wherever you are…

Today this is all about how to become good or great… But I know there are a few would say they are already good & great. So please enjoy your greatness. No one has any problem. Continue moving fast ignorantly & breaking things. It is not for you 🙏

Because the journey of becoming great begins with the realisation that you are not great. To me & for that matter to anyone in this world – Greatness is not instantaneous, it is earned.

I am sure you’ve heard this before, but ask yourself whether you’ve truly acted on this advice. When is the last time you truly believed these & tried some new things? When is the last time you found something good & then truly stuck to it for years?

Greatness is not those occasional gains or highs that are exceptional, but it is the long ride, the sequences of events that usually seems minimal at any juncture, but compounded into major gains. It’s not about overnight successes or flashes of excellence or luck, it is only about repeatable habits & sustained efforts. It is about being dependable & disciplined over a period of time.

You will be surprised to know if you find out how many people search – “how to be great”, “how to become perfect”, or “how to be successful” on Google every day. Yet, not so many of these people will follow the search results or a single advices because they realistically do not want to put in the effort over a sustained period of time to actually attain the greatness. They are just looking for the “secrets to greatness or success” that in many ways, do not exist. I am sure you know what brings success? Hard work brings success. That’s it.

Excuse me for the repeatation – Success or Greatness is non-instantaneous but continuous hard work. Ask yourself if that’s the life you’d like to live continuously. Ask yourself genuinely whether you’d like to spend your beautiful days & years in a constant uphill battle.

If it is a complete “no-no”, that’s fine! It doesn’t make you less of a person. At least you free yourself from the thinking – you want to do this or that & come to an understanding – why you haven’t been successful yet. Continue enjoying your inst**ram, p*bg or Ne**lix & chill completely guilt-free. 😎

To rest of you, let me remind that there may be some offbeat ways to become successful (as they show in movies), but to me & whole lot of real world, it is only consistent efforts. I mean to whole lot of us, continuous & thoughtful efforts are certainly the way to success & greatness.

Understand that in order to achieve the things you want in life, you literally need to become good, up to par, skilled, dedicated, focused & align yourself to your goals & dreams. You need to adopt progression.

Darling, please don’t wait for your luck or a lottery win or someone to “discover” you or help you, start with whatever you have, no matter what & begin your continuous efforts. You will surely bloom like a flower. It is simple, flowers just choose their way towards light & grow. Allow yourself to bloom, wherever you are.

In other words, the “search” for greatness is often misguided, perhaps because what we imagine to be great, is in fact not that great at all. Instead of speculating what may make you great, get out there & start doing. Do not look for anything, any magic potion or perfection, just begin & start doing something tangible deliberately.

I am sure you know a little about what input will bring what kind of output. If not, please read, learn & find all about inputs before you begin to spend years.

Bestselling author Malcolm Gladwell writes & I repeat:

People must put in 10,000 hours of hard work in order to perfect a skill.

This is the secret of success & greatness for every real successful person in the world.

In his book – Outliers: The Story of Success, he says:

No one who can rise before dawn three hundred sixty days a year fails to make his family rich..

Malcolm Gladwell

Let your hard work propel you to a speed so fast that good luck has no choice but to ride with a winner like you.

Stay Healthy, Happy & Successful! 💐

You have much more than what you have earned or deserved!

Let me remind you that you are not alone, this time is difficult for everyone around the world. But soon it will be okay. I hope maybe even better. 🤞🏼

However I wonder if you have realised that even in this difficult times of extreme uncertainty, chaos & fear, how blessed you are… I mean look at yourself, you have almost everything you need, you have your beloved ones around you, you are comfortable & you have beautiful surroundings… in my opinion much more than what you have earned or deserved.

Please do not allow any situation to trick you into forgetting that you are too blessed to be stressed, no matter what.

Thank your God immediately for all the blessings you & your family have. 🙏

If, however, you want to enjoy God’s full blessings, let you quickly get back into the routine of life & working, become more useful & a blessing to everyone around. Let you immediately change your priorities & start re-evaluating everything about you, your routines, lifestyles, habits & attitude towards your life & other people. Let you begin to pursue your goals & dreams to make your life what you want it to be. Let a new era full of promises, possibilities, exemptions, joy, happiness & prosperity rolls in for you. 🥂

Let your today & all tomorrows be incredibly satisfying, meaningful & fabulous. Stay Blessed 💐.


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Charge Your Batteries Because Your Breakthrough Is Just Around The Next Corner!

I know how it feels these days when it seems that the world has come to a complete halt during this coronavirus lockdown. This is true because most of the people shut themselves off from the rest of the world. So many things got magnified a thousandfold which otherwise were not even visible. Don’t worry 🙏.

But as we all know, the universal truth is that the sun is always present & it will soon find it’s way through the clouds, no matter what. Same is true for you. ✌️

Let your hopeful thoughts, good deeds & inspiring words remain a powerful source of reassurance not only for yourself but for your world, especially in these difficult times. Let your ability to remain patient, cheerful & optimistic radically increases your capacity for the success in your life & in all other connected lives. 🥂

Believe me everything will be all-right again! Even when everyone is thinking how to restart their lives again, let you charge your batteries & start breathing again. 🏃

Let you push yourself to think of – what do you want most in life & why this matters to you this much? Now, rewind & check – which thoughts or activities have prevented from achieving this so far. Now encourage yourself to stop doing these things you know don’t add any value to your life. Isn’t it simple ? Yes it is 🤗

Let you begin to focus your full attention & time on what matters to you the most & start seeing the magic in days to come. 😇

Always remember, you have within you all the strength, abilities, potential & the passion to reach for the stars. 🤞🏼

Remind yourself that your breakthrough is just around the next corner. So many treasure chests await you with your name on them. Start your fight & claim each of them. 👑👑

In the mean time, take good care of yourself, your health, your mind & your spirit.

Stay Blessed 💐💐


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प्रार्थना

ये ठीक है कि ईश्वर सब जगह मौजूद है, पर आप जिस भाषा मे सबसे बात करते हैं, वो थोड़े ही आप से उस तरह से बात कर सकते हैं। उंनको जानने और समझने के लिए तो आपको अपने भीतर गहरे में जाना होगा। असल मे ही। तब जैसे सभी को हुए हैं, आपको भी उनके सच्चे दर्शन हो जाते हैं। पर आपको इस सबसे पहले ये अभ्यास करना होता है कि आपके हर छोटे – बड़े कार्य मे, आपके दिखने या देखने में, आपके कुछ भी कहने – सुनने में तथा आपके मौन में बस उनकी झलक हो, ये अहसास हो कि ईश्वर आपके भीतर है – सबके भीतर है और आप पर उनकी कृपा बरस रही है। प्रार्थना बस इन्ही दिव्य, सकारात्मक और स्वस्थ विचारों को बार बार खुद को याद दिलाना है। एक मायने में और कुछ नही। अपनी इसी प्रार्थना को अपने व्यवहार में शामिल करें – सभी के साथ आपसी सम्मान, समानता और सद्भावना के साथ रहें। 🙏

आपका खुद पर और उन पर अटूट विश्वास बना रहे, आपके अराध्य आपको निरंतर अच्छे कार्यों को करने के लिए शक्ति और प्रेरणा प्रदान करते रहें तथा आपके जीवन का हर पल एक उत्सव बना रहे, ऐसी मेरी प्रभु से प्रार्थना है।

Lord – Hanuman Ji

मंगल शुभकामनाएं 💐💐

Be An Encourager & Not A Discourager!

Amid the mayhem of pandemic, intolerance, racialism & now warmongering, let you continuously make your world feel a little more confident, a little more loved & a little more of themselves every time they meet you.

Let you continuously motivate your world to do inner-work & improve their life, to practice with authenticity & patience, to develop awareness & consciousness, to find their real greatness & holding spaces for others.

Let you alway remain to be a person who is a backer of their potential & not a destroyer of their self-confidence. 🙏🙏

Let this weekend bring you much needed peace, happiness & healing. Blessings 💐💐

Achieve Peace & Joy With Minimal Cost & Effort!

I know some of us have used these lockdown days to find our solitude & have learnt to focus on our realities, strengths & our true self. I am sure most of us have become more conscious of ourself & the world around us. I am sure most of us have become mindful of what we consume in our body & mind everyday. I am sure by now we all must have begin to notice beauty, joy & happiness hidden in the most simplest of things & must have started enjoying simple pleasures. 🥂

I am sure that those little things that would ordinarily bore you suddenly have started giving you more pleasure & thrill. Isn’t it? 😂

‘The world is made what it is each day in part by countless tiny, almost unnoticeable things. When we practice greeting the world with awareness, we begin to tune into things, little things, happening all around us’

Julie van Amerongen

Believe me, a wealth of small pleasures & blessings are always all around us. If we learn to pay a little more attention to them, they could bring us both peace & joy with minimal cost & effort.

But the common belief was that happiness can only be found only in attaining big things, peace can be found only when whole world is at peace, Putting yourself in last is the healthiest thing, you will get satisfaction only upon great achievements & attainments of lavish possessions & so on — but is that really the case? No, certainly not!

On the contrary, most of these beliefs & thoughts have made us suffer more & perhaps made us more miserable instead of making us feel better.

Let you remind yourself to be more present, to change your focus in the now rather than losing yourself in worries about the past or future. Let you learn to find joy in the simple things, peace in the modest & contentment right where you are at right now.

Please don’t take it that I am saying you shouldn’t work for your growth or progress. You must but without loosing your “right now”. You must consciously decide how to spend every year, every month & every minute of your precious time to become your truest & greatest self.

Stay Healthy, Safe, Successful & Cheerful! Blessings 💐

Your “Right Now” is Important!

Yesterday my Son, Aashish said something beautiful that made me to write this thought today – Things that happened.. happened & things that haven’t, may or may not.

This brings me to this excellent thought – all we have, is all we need today, everything else is extra, a desire or a craving that is not so important as far as today’s fun or fulfillment is concerned.

Remember not to let the unhealthy parts of your egos, greed, resentments, comparisons, hypocrisies & unnecessary burdens overshadow the beauty of your “right now” & kill all the fun you can have today. So much warmth, love, empathy, care & help is available to you that you can’t even imagine. Don’t let anything disturb you, frighten you or drown you.

I do not know if you could understand what I am trying to say.

Let me put it like this – As long as we can think, smile & breathe in the present moment, everything is okay. We are still alive & being alive is just as important & fulfilling as success or fame or respect is mind-blowing to most of us. 🥂

But, I am not saying that become contented with who you are today, all I am saying is that do not place your peace & happiness in the unsteady hands of the future & others, place them at your feet & move forward. You’ll make progress. After all, why will you not? You’re talented, capable, clever, tenacious & driven. Of course you’ll be better, more, farther along one day. ✌️

Let you constantly use what you have – your knowledge, resources, relationships, skills & your potential to figure out what you should do to become your greater version, to throw all the mess out, to organize your life, so on & so on. I am saying that being enough doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t press forward. My belief & my experience is that as you work diligently with what you have patiently & honestly, more is added unto it, naturally.

Stay Polite, Grounded, Strong-minded & Strong-willed! Blessings 💐💐

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Live-and-Let-Live

I know that this will sound a bit harsh to lot of people but the truth is that there are people who wish to control, command & rule everything & everyone around them. They insist on being your top priority & want undue influence over your life. They want to regulate even to the extent what you think quietly in your own mind. They constantly push your buttons to get an emotional reaction out of you to blame you & implicate you in unnecessary brawls & arguments. You can’t be yourself around them. Not at all. It’s the only way they can tolerate being around you. 😢

They will forget what they said & did in a day but their actions & reactions will always have some unavoidable consequence for other people in their lives.

These people are not problems but their inability to keep themselves together is a problem.

This article is with a belief that when you speak to the best in people, it makes them see farther than their own immediate self-interest & egos. That’s why I sincerely hope “the best in you” is reading this. If so, I’m sure you’ll understand this.

You are far more than what you think & have become up to this point. Your world loves & respect you. Please:

  • Stop feeling hurt & offended on every damn thing.
  • Stop feeling that you are the only one who has right to be perfect, great, rock solid, an expert & a person of worth. Others too may have same feelings about themselves.
  • Stop feeling that you are the only one who is entitled & privileged.
  • Stop feeling that you need to be always right in an argument.
  • Stop expecting apologizes & sorries after every damn argument or discussion in order to get over it.
  • Manage your emotions, anxieties, fears & feelings of self-worth to give other people back their lives & emotional autonomy.
  • Value others existence, their ideas & contributions equally, if not more. Learn to give credit & appreciate others occasionally.
  • Stop belittling other’s accomplishments.
  • Stop pushing buttons of people unnecessarily. They all are your people.
  • Respect other’s boundaries, space & lives.

Believe me none of us are perfect. Even if you’re a perfectionist, you need to stay on your own case all day, not necessarily someone else’s. Everyone flies off the handle sometimes, or gets lost in their own thoughts & feelings. But that’s pretty normal. Don’t loose your calm on petty & avoidable things.

Let you continuously be a live-and-let-live person.  Let everyone be entitled to their thoughts, ideas, perceptions, beliefs, views & breathes. 🤗🤗

Remember that this universe has enough for everyone, we don’t need to snatch possessions, entitlements or damage other people’s lives in order to fulfil our desires, egos & greed.

Let you & everyone live in harmony with one another happily & peacefully! Stay Blessed!💐


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You Are Stronger Than You Think. Believe It. Feel It. Own It!

At times, we all have come under fire in one way or the other. I mean who will be there in this world who hasn’t been thrown or tossed or fed to the lions. Tell me one person who, at times, hasn’t been the butt of something. Life is full of challenges & none of us is exempt. Believe me.

Illnesses, problems, setbacks, roadblocks, troubles, difficulties, challenges, obstacles – whatever you want to call them – happen all the time & to everybody. Remember, you are not alone. It’s a normal part of life, like it or not. If you treat them as a normal part of life, you will probably solve them much easily than others.

But it is not that everything around you is just fake, dingy, negative, awful & hopeless. If you are noticing only the negative, please also make an effort to notice the good things in life. Try to notice one thing, then try to think of one more. Look around, try counting your blessings no matter how small or big they are & stop letting your lacks blindfold you from noticing how blessed you are. 👑👑

Try to identify what’s got you feeling blue & why, talk about it with your family & friends. Don’t hide it. Don’t be scared or feel guilty in sharing your problems. Because once you air out those thoughts & feelings, you & everyone else will begin to solve the problems. You will surely come out of the challenges. Remember, when you don’t give up hope & keep reaching out to others, you will eventually find the people, tools & resources that you need to heal. I guarantee you. 🙏🙏

Let you START from today:

  • Engaging. Living. Trying!
  • Laughing at yourself when you commit a blunder.
  • Eliminating all distances between yourself & others.
  • Dropping your all nonsensical prejudices toward others & connecting easily.
  • Going beyond your neediness (greediness) – I mean just check what more you need to add to your already overflowing cup? Let you begin to recognise all those fake needs, improper wants & root them out.
  • Seeing if you can practice to make your world to celebrate more instead of you feeling a need to party always,
  • Praising others instead of always in need of praise for your efforts & achievements.

You can’t talk negative with yourself & keep bashing yourself all the time & expect to blossom into a fulfilled person. Fulfillment is something you achieve by engaging fully in life.

Let you STOP from today:

  • Magnifying the negative details from a situation while filtering out all of the positive aspects.
  • Viewing everything as only “good” or “bad” in an overly uncompromising manner.
  • Coming to a conclusion about your capabilities based upon a single incident
  • Believing that you know all about how others feel about you. I mean Stop reading minds of the others & presuming that you read it right. 😂
  • Telling yourself that you understand how others feel & you know why they act as they do.
  • Expecting disaster from every interaction or situation.
  • Thinking that everything people do or say is a reaction to you, your thoughts & your deeds.
  • Comparing yourself to others in an effort to determine who is more intelligent, better looking & so forth.
  • Holding others responsible for the pain you feel or blaming yourself for every problem in your world. 🙏
  • Having a list of restrictive rules about how you & others should act. Don’t feel angry when others do not follow your rules & do not feel guilty if you violate some of these.

When life gets overwhelming, don’t just throw in the towel. You are stronger than you think. Believe it. Feel it. Own it. You are a Champ. Believe me you’re much bigger than your problems. 🙏

My best wishes are with you 💐💐. Stay Dancing, Smiling, Giggling, Marveling & Living More & More!

If you are in low spirits, feel free to write to me anytime, I will go through these sincerely & try to offer you my best advices & solutions complimentary. 🤗🤗

Give Your Life A Chance To Rise Up Again!

This is to remind everyone that no matter what’s happened, give your life & this world another chance. Like after every epidemic, drought, cyclone & a thousand of such incidents, flowers bloom back naturally, your life will also rise up again, don’t worry. Let you give it a chance to rise up again.

Remember what separates successful & failure people is not what happened to them, it is their ability & willpower to get back on track quickly.

Remember rising above difficult situation is a lifelong learning lesson & it keep changing with every life event throughout the life. Next time when you feel like everything is happening at once, please remind yourself that it is nothing but another opportunity to recreate, improve & make the rest of your life more meaningful & incredibly amazing.

Start now, start today… let you make that one choice to make the rest of your life spectacular & remarkable. Let you try with your full force to clear the way of everything that blocks the pathway to your dreams. Good luck. 💐💐

Stay Encouraging One Another!

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